>no instagram
>no twitter
>no snapchat
>facebook but I look like a weirdo because I am so inactive; no profile picture, posts, etc.
>last night go to a concert/show because it gets me out of the house
>meet cute girl I've met before
>start talking more when I go outside to smoke
>talk for a lot of the night
>plays with my hair and jacket and generally flirts (maybe?), don't really know if these are usual for girls or hints
>had to leave early and she looked a little disappointed, but could be wishful thinking and misinterpretation from 'tism
I want to contact her so I found her facebook on the event page for the concert and also her instagram after. But I'm hesitant because of my lack of activity. I would do it through facebook I guess, and like I mentioned before I don't have a profile pic or anything.
My question, I guess is, is it a super turnoff/red flag to friend her then message her in the state of my account?
she wanted to smash. you probably missed your chance.
>>18043047
Yes, don't friend her on a weird facebook account that is a turn off if she is a normal girl.
Do you want help? I can look at your account and give you suggestions to bring it to a normal level?
Do you have any pictures of yourself at all?
>>18043047
Did you get her number? If you didn't, then you blew it. Fagbook is for fags.
Next time a woman flirts with you, get her fucking number, fuckstain. And why the fuck do you have padded walls?
>>18043049
I realize that now. I doubt it's too late though.
>>18043070
She isn't a complete normal basic type, sort of more indie, but still normal I suppose.
She sort of commented on how I was weird then still showed the signs in my first post so I don't know, she could not really care. When I was smoking she said that my black lighter fit my personality.
Yeah I would love help. I doubt posting my account would help as I literally don't have any pics aside from like two from 4 years ago when I was pretty young.
I was also thinking if I add a pic then friend her that would look even stranger. Maybe I just play up the loner who doesn't care
>>18043070
Actually you could help, but it's crazy. Can you make a couple fake Instagram accounts and follow me so I look normal?
>>18043047
add a pic. boom, there you go.
>>18043210
If I add a pic then friend her she will see that the first time I added a pic in 4 years would be a couple of days before I friended her. I think it would look even weirder
>>18043221
so your choices are as follows
>add the pic now and risk weirding her out
>dont add the pic, and never get to talk to her anyway
everyone knows that not all people are on / use facebook. you're specifically looking for her anyways shes not going to think she magically popped up in 'people you may know'.
etiher grow some balls or go away
Make a new instgram account for the sole purpose of contacting her
Point out you had to find away to contact because you had such a fun time the other night
>>18043126
>I realize that now. I doubt it's too late though
she was in a fun concert mood and you rejected her
when you try to contact her you're just going to be some creep