So, I have been in line this state of limbo with a woman that I like. Maybe even love. She kind of leaves me hanging in this limbo and it's pure suffering. She hasn't explicitly told me she likes me or hates me.
Tomorrow, I set up a "date". My intention is freedom from this curse. I intend to ask her explicitly at the end how she feels about me. I don't care what choice she makes. I just want closure. 5 years of torment and wondering.
I have to drive in a snow storm for her answer. It needs to be face to face. A true chance to break the curse. If I don't make it back, know that I died trying to finally take my life back.
My question to you guys, how do I word my concerns to her with coming off creepy or insane? I am honestly just looking for closure so I can be free. I do not intend to harm her or make her uncomfortable. I just need closure.
Help me take back my life. I can hear glory calling my name. The life I am living now is no life if I have to live with this curse on my back.
>>18040427
Wow, you are definitely a creep. If theres any indication to how you worded this thread, you are going to scare the shit out of her. Additionally 5 fucking years? Yeah bro, she has no feelings for you. You dont exist in her world.
>>18040427
Has she ever kissed you? Or made physical contact with you?
She may see you as a friend/orbiter
>>18040476
She never kissed me. But she did buy me a gift that was worth like 60 bucks once.
Honestly, I just need to hear her say. "I am not interested in you". Just something. My brain is fucked man. I realize that and I am trying to free myself. I can't date other women because I feel that I need to wait for the woman that I am talking about.
This is my chance to break these chains and move on. I just need her to strike me with a few words. I can almost taste my freedom.
>>18040507
Yeah definatly ask her out right so she can say it. Be prepared for the possibility that she only sees you as a friend. 5 years is a long time if she were interested.
>>18040550
I understand. I don't care her answer. A yes would nice but a no would be nice too. I just want freedom.
I am hoping she won't dodge out though. I asked her a long time ago how she felt about me and she didn't answer.
>>18040565
Sounds to me like she's avoiding the answer because she's afraid to lose your friendship.
>>18040569
If we are friends, surely she wouldn't want to see a friend in torment. I understand what you mean though. Come tomorrow I will be free. Witness me.
Do you guys think I should tell her mid date or at the end when I drop her off? I would think the end so she doesn't feel cornered.
>>18040626
Yeah, definetively end.
>>18040646
That's what I figured. Thanks.
Well the deal is sealed. Tomorrow is another day and the day of my freedom. She confirmed that she will go out with me. I will take her out. I will not mistreat her. Just treat her like a person. The honorable way. Then take her home and ask the question that will grant my freedom. Freedom!!!
>>18041888
I wish you luck OP