gf can't cum

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>>18040072
Oh, and just in case I wasn't clear in my op, she can't have an orgasm at all - like no previous partners have given her an orgasm and she can't orgasm when she masturbates. She loves sex, just can't O and doesn't even know what it feels like.

>>18040072
She's broken, get a new chick

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>>18040081
I mean honestly if she never has an orgasm for the rest of her life, it wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me. She wants to fuck constantly, has a really nice ass, and swallows.

How often do you perform cunnilingus?

Because I gotta tell you, once you git gud, it's legitimately the easiest way to get a girl off.

Every girl is different, but there are some basic techniques that work well for almost all of them.

>>18040096
I've never done this. How do I do it?

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>>18040121
lol

>>18040096
hi real op here. Yes, I go down often. Fingers, no fingers. Buttplay. Fast, slow. Under the sheets, over the sheets. High pressure, low pressure, etc., for hours.

Anything that would work on any other woman - and has worked on every other woman I've been with - only brings her to a high level of pleasure, but she can't cum.

Have you tried using a vibrator out in public. Like the panties that the parter control.the setting? You can make it intense and low while out and about. The thrill of being in public coupled with the abuse to jer clit just may do the trick

I've been in her position for a few years. She likely has a mental block. Does she ever push you away when getting close because it gets too much or doesn't feel good anymore? If so, she certainly has a mental block.

If this is the case, she needs to climax to get over it and it's by far easiest if she does it herself.
What happens when she masturbates? Does she get bored, feel nothing to begin with, get turned off at some point?

>>18040141
This

Try smoking weed with her.

>>18040141
I'm not sure what happens when she masturbates. I asked her a little bit about it, but the farthest I got was determining that she doesn't watch porn because she thinks porn is gross, and she has tried using the showerhead, which I suggested she try. She also has a medium-sized vibrator I bought for her I know she's used when we're together, so I assume she's tried using it by herself as well.

I can only imagine she just gets to a point where she gets bored or it isn't pleasurable anymore, or maybe she's released enough endorphins that she can just relax or something and do something else.

I honestly have no idea because the thought of not being able to cum would make me extremely frustrated., if it were me.

>>18040159
Get her baked

I haven't actually tried this out in practice but a g-spot vibrator surely has to work? Also her not watching porn is probably a non issue for the orgasm part.

>>18040156
>>18040162
she smokes weed like a few times a year. so i don't know if that's going to remove her mental block. does she have to be baked while we're fucking?

it's not a bad idea. we haven't tried it yet. i don't know if she's ever tried it before.

>>18040169
she definitely reacts to g-spot stimulation just from fingering. i'm not sure if a g-spot vibrator would do the trick.

i was thinking about upgrading her vibrator to a hitachi wand or something with more power. don't know if that would help.

>>18040159
What would happen for me is that suddenly it would just not feel good anymore. I think I was scared deep down or whatever, it was all subconscious, but my body would shut down and it was like I hadn't come but my horniness was gone. (Though it would return in five-ten minutes, rinse and repeat.)

I forced myself to keep going once and it was never an issue again, though that first time was highly unpleasant.

You can't miss what you never had, sex still feels good to her. Keep in mind that if she learns how to climax, chances are her sex drive will go down. She's essentially never satisfied now whether she realizes it or not, it's having an orgasm that tends to make people not want anymore sex for some time. So don't be unpleasantly surprised if that happens.

Weed isn't a bad idea but I doubt it'll instantly do the trick after all this time.

>>18040191
thx for the advice

>>18040181
Yeah, have you not seen Annie Hall?