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Not Quite Unrequited Love 2017-02-11 02:17:22 Post No. 18040038
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I think I am overreacting, I often do. But then I know for a fact that I love my S/O more than they love me. Cuz when i ask them serious questions about us, I never get a real answer, or they just don't know the answer. And it hurts, because I know the answer and I don't have to think twice. There's someone else, I know it. And not that they are cheating, but there's someone from thier past who has a much stronger hold on thier heart than I do. Its so bad that that he can't even talk about her. And he says that he's over her and that he just don't want to talk about the worst time of his life. But they were together for 8 years. So that's a pretty huge gap in your life to want to skip over. He can talk to me about anything else, excpet her. And thr thing is, he used to all the time, to the point it was as though she was his second girlfriend. I encourage him to stop talking to her all together because it was hurting me and he did, but nowhe doesn't want to talk about her at all. So I just feel like, when I ask him if he can see forever with me and he says no its because of her.
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He just needs some time, let him become more comfortable. He's just thinking about her constantly because of a regret or something similar, but he does not love her. He obviously loves you, be close to him and let him know that you love him just as much and I'm sure he will open up.
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>bf talks about ex
>I ask him to stop
>he stops
>why did he stop
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I asked him to stop talking to her, not about her.
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So When I asked him to stop talking to her, he shut me out of that part of his life all together.
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Just fucking leave him you dumb bitch. he obviously doesn't give a shit as much as you do.
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>>18040834
Wow, what world class shitty advice.
How old are you, 16?
In every relationsgip, things will never be completely equal. Don't be foolish. Could be that they don't want to be hurt so are keeping themselves from giving you themselves fully. Is it awful being with them? Do they spit on you and cheat? Ridicule you in front of your friends? Just stay with the person unless they hit you or do some other shitty thing.
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>>18040042
Yeah, you're right. I'm probably just overreacting anyways. I mean, he stopped bringing her up. But its like, looming over me. The fact that he gets really upset whenever I ask about her is pretty daunting too. But I'll just patient.
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>>18040851
He doesn't do anything to me unless I guess I approach a sore subject, then he gets mean.
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