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First off, sorry for the whine thread.
Does anybody have some advice on how to get your girl back, or at least make her reconsider giving you another shot.
I'm a fucking idiot and already wasted 2 chances she gave me, now she says It's definitive. It's been 3 months since the break up and It's literally killing me. We have a 2year old son so we'll always be in eachothers lives.
Problem is she doesn't believe anything I say or promise, and I can't really blame her. What is there possibly left for me to say or do to turn the tide one last time? What is left to say after you said It a million times with the same result.
tldr: I'm a fucking moron but whatever I did wasn't bad enough to go on without my family.
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>Does anybody have some advice on how to get your girl back, or at least make her reconsider giving you another shot.
yea. forget about her and move on with your life. that's literally your best chance of getting her back.
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>Does anybody have some advice on how to get your girl back, or at least make her reconsider giving you another shot.
You kept the receipt, right?
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Like you said. You're a fucking idiot. If someone fucked up twice with me, I wouldn't believe their bullshit either.
Move on and find someone else. Also, be good to your son.
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>>18037225
Hard thing to do, I still have to see her every week to pick up/drop off my son. And we stay in touch for said reason.
Also to make It clear, It's not about getting my "fling" back so the usual a thousand fish in the sea bullocks isn't helping. I want my family, my home back. This shit isn't even on the same page.
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what did you do?
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>>18037234
Fucked up once really, second time she ended It saying she couldn't feel it or believe It to be sincere. The kid is amazing.
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>>18037239
We wanted to start a business together, didnt work out. Lost a lot of money and gained a lot of dept, got depressed started drinking, lost my job and she became pregnant at same time, became scared started drinking more. Became alcoholic (not the violent type, but the lazy one) She couldn't deal with It. Almost daily fights after that and we drifted apart.
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>>18037250
thats sucks bro.. :/
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>>18037260
Those are the reasons, but I know they aren't excuses. I never cheated or laid my hand on her and I truly love her. But yes I should have manned the fuck up. I got my shit together now and for my families sake I honestly believe I deserve another shot, but I'm not that pretentious to believe that is up to me to decide.
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>>18037288
Show her you have become responsible. Support your child, stop drinking, hold a steady job, take the kid overnight so your ex can have some down time.
Arrange some activities with both of them... a trip to a park together or a kids movie. Let the ex see what you are now, not what she remembers you to be.
If you show her your best and she still isn't interested, move on.
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