Did I fuck things up?

>>18036275
what?

did you agree to hang out on saturday? then contact him tomorrow and ask if you're still on for today

how does him buying you and then bringing you coffee make you think something went wrong

yeah he's probably angry/confused by what he interprets as mixed signals.

>actually buying you coffee and delivering it to you

It's not your fault he's a dumb fag

>>18036287
Not about the getting coffee thing, it's about me paying him back. He said No and wasn't happy when I tried to give him the money. My friend told me that I made him confused.
>>18036292
This. Pretty much. I gave him a mixed signal. But honestly I didn't want to make him think that there's something on about us. At least not at the moment

>>18036294
>But honestly I didn't want to make him think that there's something on about us. At least not at the moment

Sounds like he's well-earned being annoyed at you. "I know he likes me but I'm not interested in him right now but I reserve the right to let it go somewhere in the indeterminate future"

Don't string him along because it's cruel and you know it.

>>18036294
>But honestly I didn't want to make him think that there's something on about us. At least not at the moment

how about you ditch the orbiter and find someone else to take faggy pictures with. Dudes like that are always bad news

>>18036300
We are actually good friends before but after something happened we drifted away. I know it's cruel but I never promised him anything. Why don't we just hangout as friends?
>>18036304
Why is it a bad news?

>>18036294
in his mind, you agreed upon going out/a date with him saturday and thus he insists upon paying for things because of a multitude of reasons.

you denying him this makes him question what saturday is. if he has gone silent about saturday suddenly then this is reinforced.

if you want to see him just as friends then make your intentions clear once he shows you what his intentions are.

>>18036314
You can't just hang out as friends while there is that imbalance in power. He likes you and you know it, and I would assume that he is aware you know it too if he does things like bring you coffee.

One day you might be able to be friends again but you're not until your current standing is resolved.

>>18036314
>Why is it a bad news?

Because the guy's anger/confusion comes from his frustration that you can't see that he's the perfect guy for you and it's only a matter of time before you wise up a realize that the man of your dreams has been under your nose this whole time. I mean, what's taking you so long to realize it? Huh? What are you blind you fucking bitch

>>18036321
How can I do that? It's awkward and we all know that. He never proposed to me so I can't officially assumed that he interested in me hence I don't have the right to make anything clear between us, because nothing is up between us
>>18036323 one day is what day? It happened before he did things like buying me coffee, pat my head or such and that why we don't talk anymore. Maybe I should end this relationship forever

>>18036382
One day is in the future when he has moved on and you are also over whatever your involvement with him may have been.

>did I fuck up?
>orbiting around each other without closing

Both of you are destined to drift elsewhere.

Well yeah I just texted him to confirm the date. Then I think I should make it clear this time. Might have to tell him I'm seeing someone