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TL:DR at the end of the greentext
>2.5 year LDR
>Broke up with GF around october-november
>She lied
>Month apart
>We saw again
>She said "anon you're so special I don't wanna lose you"
>Okay we can be the best friends like before dating you only have to effort and I will do the same
>Time passes, things gets colder
>I know how this works it happened before
>Stop trying (as I told her)
>December arribes
>Feeling down in the 28th
>She didn't even texted "Merry Christmas anon"
>But I knew she won't, which gave me mixed feelings in being right about something bad
>"I miss you"
>"I don't know what to say anon"
>Things escalates
>"You said I was special that day"
>"Yeah well time passes"
>I rage but I don't keep pushing it
>Sent her a Christmas gift (I bought it in september I didn't want to have it)
>She opens chat with me
>"What a surprise" etc
>Cold chat, never comes up
>No chatting since then
TL:DR Ex-Gf didn't talk although she said she wanted to do it right for almost 4 months since break up
That's a quick background, I'm going to delete the number tomorrow telling her "I hate how you managed this like always, running fucking away, so at least I want to be educated and saying goodbye to you"
I know how I work inside and I NEED to tell her how bad she did at my eyes, but at the same time I feel like I'm going too do something wrong, but I don't have any big facts about being wrong.
Should I do it?
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>>18035898
Why bother? It only makes you look like a chump, and you're going to get ignored/shit on anyways. There's literally nothing you can gain from talking to her anymore except shitty catharsis, which might not even be good if she tells everyone what a whiny bitch you were
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>>18035924
Well, although I think you usually could be right, there's some points I have to detail.
>you're going to get ignored/shit on anyways
For good or bad I won't, so that's why I want to do it.
>There's literally nothing you can gain from talking to her
I need to take it out of my chest, and since talking this issue in whatever any other form won't satisfy me, I think I need to do it.
>won't be good if she tells everyone what a whiny bitch you were
200km apart, I have nobody on her city, and the people who could know I'm bitching already know what we've been through
In other matter, I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm just trying to debate it.
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>>18035944
You won't be able to force her to get the last word, you won't force her to feel bad. It's not going to do anything in the long run, and barely do anything in the short run.
You're free to do it, but from experience and from observation, you're highly likely to experience a whole lot of nothing that you're getting worked up over. It's like you expect her to break down in tears when you finally rip off the bandaid, but in truth the bandaid lost all of its stickyness ages ago and she's too lazy to put forth the effort to give it a light tug.
Just stop paying attention to her and live your own life. The only way you'll get any actual closure and satisfaction is to live a life well enough that when/if she ever looks back, she'll finally realize what she let go years ago.
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>>18036800
Yeah, you're most right I guess. I know is worth nothing and I try to force myself into thinking your last lane, but I also have the feeling of lile she's getting away for everything she did.
I know she probably won't care or she won't barely react, but I don't like the idea of her having the idea of "everything went great".
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OP Here, just tellin you how it ended.
I was about to say "I'm deleting your number" because had an Ex who after break up just blocked her all on the earth.
Then reconsidered, tried to open myself instead on going savage.
Dissapointed pasivity and "I'm doing just what I'm feeling anon, even if I told you the opposite".
So, yup, time to move on and never came back.
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