My best friend told me yesterday she's not in love with her husband anymore. They have a young child together and have been married for 10 years.
When we first met a few years ago I asked her what she thought about the two of us being more than friends and she told me "we're only friends and that's all we'll ever be and she loves her husband no matter what she says"
What should I do in this situation? I'm attracted to her but I don't know if she feels the same way or I'm just confusing her actions from us being best friends.
>>18033735
Don't be a selfish home-wrecker. Leave it alone until she has left him. Once she does then make your move, but be prepared for rejection.
>>18033735
And this is why marriage is a bad idea. 10 years married with a child, and she's just now "losing interest" in him. Add in potential homewreckers like yourself and it's just a recipe for disaster.
>>18033740
marriage isn't a bad idea, marrying prematurely without truly knowing someone, that is a real problem. it's better to go years single than not really know someone who has been there the whole time.
>>18033739
I'm going with this. Seems like I confused our friendship as something more because she was telling me how she feels about her husband. I need to look at it from the perspective just a friend would.
>>18033735
i think it would be best for everyone if you killed yourself
>>18033735
You must be a different class of male/human. You aren't quite the savage type, who finds girls attractive and follows his natural instinct of wanting to mate with them, thus chases them regardless of other factors. You're more like a vulture or some cowardly scavenger animal, sitting there forever until you can have a chance for a bit. Truly you're a piece of shit and deserve to die. Sage.
This is normal. Would be silly not to take advantage of the situation. But don't think that she sees you as more than a rebound or selfish side fuck.