I don't know what to do I'm confused.
I am always a kind person sometimes naive, but recently I've noticed something in me that changed and I don't even know if it's good or not.
In the past I used to afraid to say "No" whenever someone asks me to do them favors. I used to scared of people not happy with me and will be abandoned.
Now that I changed I'm not afraid of that anymore. I'm being cruel and sometimes a bit selfish. Selfish here I meant in some cases I will put my benefit on top of everything. I used to be bullied by others co workers that I am what I am now.
What should I do? Is this what a person transforms into a adult completely? Or I am being a bad person?
I am confused. I don't know what to do now. Please help. I need some advice or sharing.
>>18033663
thats fine. it means you are growing a backbone.
>>18033691
I know right. That's what I thought but I don't know if it's a bit too much such as in front of my boss and my colleagues I straight up tell my boss if someone didn't do their job probably and even offered myself to the job to get things done right. I don't know, I'm somewhat confused
>>18033732
dont put others down, but dont be afraid to speak up if you think things could be done better. if your boss doesnt like it, find a new one. life is too short.
>>18033743
Note to self. Noticed
>>18033663
Be firm, but always be polite.