So I lost my Grandad a few weeks ago (who bought me up along

>>18032449
I read "lost my Gandalf" and laughed, so theres that
and why is always the uncles who are fucking families up, srsly..

uum, hang in there, dude, its just life
free bump I guess, eh?
peace

>>18032553
It's all I can do I guess. It really is Uncles who cause the shit lol.

>>18032566
we can go through it I guess, if you want to.
Its a shitty phase for sure, I cant even imagine what do you feel like (not a family man myself), but why not use it as a jumping-off point? not literally ofc, har har

I read you had started a thread on another thread and I would've felt like a dick if I didn't reply to it, so here I am.

First of all, I'm sorry, life can be really shitty sometimes.

Secondly, my condolences to you, and your family.

Thirdly, you really need to evaluate and think if your partner is right for you. We all make mistakes, but you'll have to think back about how she has behaved in the past to be able to label this one she made as either forgivable or unforgivable. It's up to you. Remember you don't need negativity in your life at the moment, and sometimes you have to make tough decisions and let some people go.

Best of luck.

>>18032449
first things first, sorry about your grandpa.
now. you need to kick your fiance to the curb. she is garbage. what kind of person, after promising to be with you and only you, goes out and fucks around on you, on your birthday, and right after the death of a very close family member? i dont even know this girl and i want to slap her. i know nothing about her other than what you have said and i can tell you with absolute certainty that she is a terrible person. dumping her is the least you should do. personally, i would exact revenge, but im not what youd call a well adjusted individual. get rid of her, move on with your life.

What the hell. Who does that to someone when they just lost someone. Ditch her.