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>Be anti-social
>Live in small city in middle-America
>Looking for a quality woman
Where do people look to for social networking?
Do people use networking apps like Tinder, Meet Up, etc?

I've tried Tinder years ago, and it was fleeting at that time, I imagine that it's not flourished well over the seasons.

Any advice would be helpful.
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Like attracts like. Are you a quality man?
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>>18031218
Yeah, I see what you're asking.

I get looks from women all the time--I seem to keep their attention, they blush, laugh, smile, etc.
However, I never get a chance to have personal relationships and conversations with them, as my time with them is limited to work.
I want to have personal, meaningful relationships; mostly with women.
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Well, what are you defining as quality?
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>>18031301
Not that I need to say it, but I'm not looking for a street trash socialist type.
I want a nice conservative girl with a good upbringing.
I was thinking of joining a church.
Now I know what I need to do.
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>>18031336
Well, what do you have of quality?
Conservative girls are kind of thin on the ground at the moment, particularly younger ones. Why do they have to be conservative?
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>>18031340
I'm a wealthy investor, I have decent looks, good family, early 20s.
>Conservative girls are kind of thin on the ground at the moment, particularly younger ones
Do you think that is because of the media and various outlets corrupting the youth?

I prefer conservative girls as I'm a conservative myself; I want a girl that compliments my persona and character, rather than her being a drag all the time.
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>>18031343
I just think girls believe that the right or conservatives or whatever don't really respect or view them as equals. Housewife, not being able to have their own dreams etc.
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>>18031198
>>Be anti-social
Are you anti-social, or asocial? That's an unbelievably important distinction. It's the difference between being a potential serial killer, and just an illiterate idiot.
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>>18031344
Yeah, that's the consensus coming from the left point-of-view, but it's not really the case.
The harsh reality of human existence is that most women are not particularly strong, and need to be cared for--the housewife mentality that you speak of is a trade-off.
The woman stays at home, and the man provides for her in return for certain favors.
These are understandings that are established upon initial creation of the relationship.
Young people aren't old or mature enough to fully grasp the severity and outright dire aspects of the world, and chalk off conservative girls as "repressed" or put down.
This simply isn't the case.

Socially progressive girls are actually more put down and oppressed than your typical conservative. The leftist-woman adheres to certain points of view that in no way promotes positive mental or financial growth--not to mention it typically leads to the creation of a single-parent household.
This is a recipe for disaster.
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>>18031349
Thank you for your constructive addition to the thread.
To answer your question, I'm anti-social.
I understand cues, gestures, expressions, etc; I'm not autistic, if that's what you're going for, which I assume is what led you to your conclusion.

I just prefer to not be around people, and I typically resent and loathe most.
I most notably have a disdain for political leftists.

I'm old enough to understand that the major population has an eye for "anti-social" types and generally is averse to those people, which has not helped me in the past. However, I've developed a persona, I've developed a personality, I've developed an idea of a human--even if it isn't real.
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>>18031354
I don't think women really need to be cared for anymore. It's not like every man is called on to fight a war every five minutes. Most women are perfectly capable of holding down a desk job- sure they wouldn't be great firemen or soldiers (maybe some, but not most) but brute strength is not really necessary anymore.

>The leftist-woman adheres to certain points of view that in no way promotes positive mental or financial growth
How, exactly?

I don't judge conservative women or conservative men, nor do I judge left wing women or left wing men (I'm a centrist). I think each viewpoint is viable, and so long as the whole thing is discussed before a relationship gets serious, it doesn't really matter. If you want to have male provider, female housewife, fine. If you want to split the work 50/50, fine. If you want a female breadwinner and male house husband, fine. What isn't fine is telling people that their way of being is wrong and awful, and calling them stupid for it- it's very immature.

Basically, people should do whatever they feel is right in regards to male/female relations.
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>>18031359
>I'm not autistic, if that's what you're going for, which I assume is what led you to your conclusion
No, what led me to my conclusion is that you're misusing the phrase "antisocial." You misused the first time where I pointed it out, and you're misusing it here.
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>>18031359
I think anti-social means you have a disdain for people and enjoy seeing them hurt and killed, whereas a social means you simply don't like socializing. That's the real reason why anti-social carries a stigma and a social (introvert you could say) not nearly as much.
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>>18031360
>I don't think women really need to be cared for anymore. It's not like every man is called on to fight a war every five minutes. Most women are perfectly capable of holding down a desk job- sure they wouldn't be great firemen or soldiers (maybe some, but not most) but brute strength is not really necessary anymore.
What you're referencing is theory, not practice of actual modern human experience.
For example, if a woman were to get a "desk job" they would need to attend college, which is a breeding ground for corruption and misdeed of all kinds.
Women are preyed upon, and that doesn't take a genius a to figure out. If the women aren't found by a man in person, they're definitely corrupted by women their own age, the media, or both.
I have thought similarly to you myself when I was younger, but as I've grown older I've seen and noticed what the world does to people, and it's not pretty, it's not fantastical, it's not a dream, it's a severe destitute reality of misfortune.
Women are ill-equipped to stand the tests of the world's tenacity, if they're not partnered with a man.
Biologically speaking, women and men were meant to be together, this is no lie, this is no fabrication.
However, it is not my intent to have this thread turned into a political discussion.
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>>18031379
Sure dude. This kind of intolerance and thinking women are pathetic and inferior is probably why you don't have a girlfriend. Doesn't seem like you respect women much, and even conservatives want that.
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>>18031360
(Continued)

>>The leftist-woman adheres to certain points of view that in no way promotes positive mental or financial growth
>How, exactly?
Modern leftists, particularly, extreme leftists are morally corrupted, and incapable holding meaningful relationships that are not predicated on specific foundations built by the media or the educational institutions that aims to indoctrinate them.
These modern feminists are not going to get married, they're not going to breed, and if they do, it's going to be a single-parent family.
These feminists are falsely believing that what they're doing is radical and has never been achieved before, they're actually just falling to the whims of their political adversaries that aim to subvert and malign their sociopolitical nature to achieve control and financial wealth. This, inherently, by the fact does not promote freedom, and does not promote freewill.
Ironically, these women are actually burying themselves through their ambitions of falsely thinking they're "freeing" themselves.
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>>18031360
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>I don't judge conservative women or conservative men, nor do I judge left wing women or left wing men (I'm a centrist). I think each viewpoint is viable, and so long as the whole thing is discussed before a relationship gets serious, it doesn't really matter. If you want to have male provider, female housewife, fine. If you want to split the work 50/50, fine. If you want a female breadwinner and male house husband, fine. What isn't fine is telling people that their way of being is wrong and awful, and calling them stupid for it- it's very immature.
You specifying your disinterest in judgment is a leftist sentiment, and is irrelevant to this discussion. Whether you say you don't want to judge people, you do it everyday. I'm not concerned with your political viewpoints, you, or someone, has asked me mine and that is all. I'm again not interested in a political discussion.

>Basically, people should do whatever they feel is right in regards to male/female relations.
You seem young, or maybe you're a woman. But reality IS NOT based upon feelings. At least from a pragmatist's point of view.
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>>18031389
Eh, or maybe I've seen other stuff work just as well as tradition. Like someone else said, even conservative women want respect, and you don't have that. Honestly, you seem like a pseudo sociology spouting sexist, and kind of a patronising asshole to boot. No wonder you can't find a girl.
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>>18031362
Even IF you think you know what you're talking about, which means you're a psych major (which is laughable); it's irrelevant.
Anti-social is the aversion and lack of enjoyment of social activities and the dis-conformity of society's standards.
Your pedantic responses are not helping and I suggest you stop.
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>>18031365
I think anti-social means you have a disdain for people and enjoy seeing them hurt and killed, whereas a social means you simply don't like socializing. That's the real reason why anti-social carries a stigma and a social (introvert you could say) not nearly as much.
No, you've watched too much tv and killer dramas.
If you want to get into psychology, psychopathy is the type that enjoys hurting other people. not anti-social.

A-social is the disinterest and apathy towards the subject.


I both disdain people, and share the sentiment of apathy towards socializing.

I'm not sure why there's so much confusion and hostility about this minor detail.
What a surprise!
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>>18031384
>Sure dude. This kind of intolerance and thinking women are pathetic and inferior is probably why you don't have a girlfriend. Doesn't seem like you respect women much, and even conservatives want that.
You gotta cool it with the personal attacks, you fucking creep.

To answer your comment, it's irrelevant what I think about the matter, it's a fact.
You liberals can try to jostle words and notions around all you want, but reality is going to bite you in the ass inevitably.
Also, I never said I have never had a girlfriend, and women do find me interesting.
My issue, is that I live in a small city, and it's difficult to meet people.
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>>18031403
It's not even a personal attack. It's just fact. You do think that.
>It's fact because I say it is

Anyway, why don't you move to a bigger city? Or go out and do stuff?
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>>18031394
It seems I've struck a chord, and I am definitely not a sociology major, however, I do study the humanities because being cultured helps in all areas of life.

I'm not interested in your personal life, but thanks for your response, even if it was an attempt to be deconstructive.

What's up with you leftists and the personal attacks, have you no manners?
I've been polite and calm, answered your questions logically, and you spit my face like the degenerates on the street crying about Trump's election.
Sad!
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>>18031406
If you opened your eyes and pulled your arm out of your ass, you'd see that there's corruption on the streets, and it's not the conservatives that are in this cesspit of depravity, it's always the leftists who justify their actions through freedom and expression, and all that shit.
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>>18031407
Dude, you've done nothing but attack that guy, calling him an idiot, young, naive etc.
I've just been lurking. Not commenting. But you can't say you have been polite- you've been very condescending. You also refuse to hear other viewpoints or see them as valid viewpoints, albeit different to yours. When you come at an argument from the point of "you're a moron if you don't believe exactly as I do" you're going to put people's back up.
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>>18031403

I'm not the poster you're responding to but your attitude kind of sucks. You can keep appealing to nature to justify your inherently insulting opinions but the fact of the matter is you haven't shown, in this thread, any sort of kind of honest introspection or genuine humility.

The unfortunate truth is that if you claim to be a quality man yet you fail to attract any quality women its because you aren't a quality man. To be honest, I don't even really know what you mean by "quality" means because humans aren't fucking sets of tires and the mere fact that you instinctually view humans and women as items of varying worth tells me that you don't the empathy or basic decency to fool a nice, genuine women to enter into a relationship with you.

Women can smell foul attitudes from a mile away. This isn't a personal attack but a mere statement of fact. Your natural ability to catalog and shuffle people into their respective categories and stereotyped boxes helps keep your sense of reality organized and efficient but its also killing your chances at a chance of a decent relationship with a decent woman.

Decent women tend not to like being viewed the way you view them.
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>>18031411
I never called him any of those things, and certainly didn't attack him out of the blue without prior instigation.
Don't know why you're being an SJW on the advice board on 4chan.
>you've been very condescending
that's your perception, it's wrong, and I totally disagree.
I came here for minor advice, and people started to attempt to deconstruct my thread, throw it off course, get into political discussions that have no relevancy, and have been outright condescending themselves.
So, your blatant sophistry is irrelevant just like your comment, but thanks for lurking an not contributing at all.

>You also refuse to hear other viewpoints or see them as valid viewpoints, albeit different to yours
Again, not that you have any relevance in the discussion, but they're attacking me on my wish to find a conservative girl, as if this is a trigger word. They even mentioned oppression and rightwing girls being putdown, I think this is askew and off-balance.
It's unfortunate that this thread has turned into a political discussion.
>When you come at an argument from the point of "you're a moron if you don't believe exactly as I do" you're going to put people's back up.
I never said that, you're just a fucking cuck at this point.
Go find another thread to try and shit on.
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>>18031409

>it's not the conservatives that are in this cesspit of depravity, it's always the leftists who justify their actions through freedom and expression, and all that shit.
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>>18031417
You're also a bait at this point. Calling people cucks or SJWs for defending someone? Really? Either you're so far gone down the alt right rabbit hole there's no hope for you, or you're bait.

Honestly, >>18031415
is right (they basically said what I did). You're probably putting women off with your attitude dude. No judgement, but it does happen.
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>>18031417

You're very immature and petulant when it comes to criticism and opposing view points. Its obvious that you aren't willing to accept any advice or input that is critical of your opinions or behavior whatsoever so, I think we're about done here. I'm not sure why you bothered coming here in the first place if you didn't want people to tell you the truth about yourself.

I'm sure we're not the first people who have had criticisms of your immature behavior. That could possibly explain the visceral reaction you're having right now.

Either way, this whole thing is done. You don't want advice, you just want people to agree with you. This isn't the place for that, unfortunately.
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Look, honest advice? Stop being antisocial and get out of the house. Go to church, go to something to do with what you like (book club etc) and meet people. You don't find friends or lovers by being anti social.

You could always try OkCupid. The profiles are a little more in depth.
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>>18031415
I'm not going to sit here and evaluate every response that you're giving, which is mostly personal attacks (how original for this thread).
I'll simply answer your quandary.
I have in no way initiated this thread to attack anyone, but I've "triggered" various people apparently in reference to me trying to find a "conservative woman" and my rhetoric. People have called me various names with no foundations to the findings.
I'm appealing to nature, because that is reality, whether people wish to hypothesize and theorize and philosophize, is irrelevant. The law, justice and the world are examples, explicitly and without question. If you're interested in the specific references I made, there are evidences to back those claims up too, I suggest you read the thread.

I'm not here to argue you with SJW pieces of shit, and I will stand by that attack, because that's all you people are at this point.
I know what I need to do, and why I came here for advice.
I can get women, I have, and I have dated women; again for the 3rd time, I'm simply looking for better ways to find better women in a small town.
You people can go attack other conservatives all you want, that's your business.

You faggots have successfully derailed the thread.
You've not convinced me that you're good people with your virtue-signaling. Good luck with the degeneracy you left-wing fucking nut-job faggots.
Eat my dick, and suck my asshole, fuck off.
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>>18031419
nice response faggot!
stay triggered you big leftist bitch.
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>>18031437
Honestly, move out of the small town. It won't get better. Just like, go somewhere big.
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>>18031437
>>18031417
>>18031407
>>18031409
>>18031403
>>18031389

I love your bait dude.
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Hey, I'm here for giving you actual advice. Other than what others have said about moving out of a small town or trying OKcupid, can I ask why the other relationships you've had failed? It might offer insight into what you want and how to find it etc.
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>>18031437
>>18031440

Have you considered the possibility that maybe none of this has anything to do with anybody being on the left or the right or believing in social justice and everything to do with you just being a gigantic asshole?

Like a huge, gaping, incessantly childish asshole with paper thin skin and an unmanageable ego?
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