Is it odd my GF who is in grad school and lives an hour away

>>18030557


hmm I dunno OP, how would she feel if you started hanging out with a new best friend who was a girl every night? (By the way, yes it's incredibly fucking weird).

I'd probably be concerned.

Take this as you will. This happened to me very recently still getting over it.

>girl friend i live with starts talking to this guy she met through mutual friends
>after a while shes talking to him almost constantly
>voice my concern as I can tell when someone likes talking to someone that much something is up
>she says not to worry and she just likes talking to him
>chill out
>notice shes getting ims from her computer and see the conversations
>hes flirting with her and shit (she didnt really say anything back just ah thanks)
>confront her
>reassures me nothing is up
>time passes
>starts acting odd
>comfront once more about odd behavior and turns out that she developed feelings for him and they admitted they have those feelings for each other and planned to see each other soon and flirted while I was with her. Prolly some other shit too.

Basically if a girl likes being around him as much as she does you then she prolly has feelings for that dude bro. Shit fucking hurts

>>18030793
Moral of this story is nip it in the bud.
If she leaves you, sucks she'a shitty.
You don't say anything, she eventually leaves you guaranteed.

Yeah, it definitely is odd.

Whatever you decide to do about that, don't do anything you might regret later, but don't let her or that guy walk over you.

>>18030557
>>18030793
This
My ex hung around with this one guy every chance she had, I could tell he had feelings for her, told her I wasn't okay with it. She assured me she didn't have feelings and wouldn't, silly me, a couple months later she left me, because quote "i have feelings for someone else"

Males and females can't really be friends, unless theyve already fucked and moved past it, otherwise curiosity will always arise, and modern man is too weak and folds under the pressure of desire

>>18030793
cucked lmao get out of here dicklet

>>18030557
Yes, absolutely.

>I'm a cuck
shame on you OP

>>18030557
It's odd. I've seen porn were the girl is talking on the phone with her bf while being railed or blowing.
Something to consider.

Most importantly, he sounds more like the boyfriend. How often do you see her? You never met him? Red flag.

>>18030557
You don't know what's actually happening but who knows? It's out of your range of knowledge.
The worst thing you can do is confront her about it as it's a very repelling and insecure move for you - which makes you less attractive.
Simply be casual about it and pretend not to care. People, women especially, like you more if you're more scarce since you're less of an available resource- this move could also backfire though since she might become lonely and seek refuge with this unknown entity.

Absolutely do not confront her about your jealousy as it will not only make you less desirable but it will also plant ideas in her head - as humans it's only natural to gravitate to something unknown; we imagine what it's like to be with someone else in the best possible light, usually this is a fantasy.

The best thing to do is wait it out. If she picks this person over you then there are fundamental problems with your compatibility. Relationships require work to succeed from both parties. If you want to keep her strive to be a better you. Prepare yourself for poor outcomes since in the off chance you get cucked it will not feel pleasant so steel yourself.
Always be calm and composed. Don't stress about something you can't really prevent. Nothing could actually be happening - you simply don't know. It's up to her and honestly you're probably better off in the end and you'll likely find someone more interesting without expecting it. Keep composure, stay strong. Best of luck.

>>18030557
Toxicity right here. She needs his masculine energy I order for her to feel secure and desired as a female. She gets this from you but it's totally different. She is actually overall closer to this guy than you, based on amount of time spent on a regular basis. She should be yearning to hang out with you constantly. I have known plenty of women who are like this. They don't see any harm i it. These are the same females who let all these guys they know hug them, kiss them on the cheek, give them rides places, talk shit with, and generally get taken care of by these guys. Yet they all have boyfriends. It's twisted but "normal". Ditch this normal girl or give into her shit. At the end of your relationship if she breaks up with you, she wins.

>>18030590
No it's not it's relatively normal. But there may be a double standard here.

>>18030933
porn isn't real though

>>18030557
Make sure to meet him, asap. Figure out if there is something, if there is ask her to choose. If she picks him, she was not really with you at all, was she, so there is nothing to lose here but time. The years you might be in a non-relationship if you don't get this figured out. You might be dating, if you don't know her close friends, and he is a close friend at least, then you are not in a relationship. You just are not. Believe me. Amen.

Lol bail OP