Sup /adv/,
I'm 23 years old and just a bit experienced in dating women. This night though, i had some girl asking me out for a prom.
Any average girl I would've said ok. This girl though, is a bit too >thicc for my liking and I know two guys I'm familiar with who have already fucked her. I said I'm not sure wether I'm capable of going(srsly might have an exam 1-2 days after prom) so I said I will message her tomorrow. The biggest problem is that if turn her down, some other girls in her frat might avoid me.
I know I fucked up by not turning her down immediately, but how do I fix this shit now? How can i turn this down politely?
I'm confused: A high school prom? I've never heard of a college prom.
Doesn't matter who she is, a man your age shouldn't be going to some lame dance, or for that matter concerning himself with some girls in a "frat" (I thought girls joined sororities? Or am I totally out of touch with college lingo these days?)
>>18027646
I'm from the netherlands. things work a bit different around here. Basically i'm from a frat, but a girl from another frat invited me for a gala/prom. Those activities work kinda like this:
>you get a date
>gala starts at 9:00 pm
>take pictures
>males spend time together, drinking for free
>same for women
>around 2:00 or 3:00 am you meet your date again and go home and fuck.
TL:DR You pay for a €30-40 ticket, drink for free and end up fucking your date with a 80-90% chance
>males spend time together, drinking for free
The more I learn about this, the worse it sounds.
IMO you should be working on getting yourself a proper job rather than wasting your time with a landwhale at some homoerotic moneysuck.
>>18027707
Dude, I get that.
>>18027707
You're being a little too serious but you definitely have a point on wasting his time with a landwhales feelings