I'm 30, still a virgin, first started masturbating 3 years ago, got hit with a HUGE surge of sexual urges as a result and I've been fapping ever since. The problem is after the first couple of times, masturbating has started to feel annoying and frustrating and every time I finish it just makes me that much more annoyed that It's not sex and I get even more thirsty for it each time.
Even if I try to resist my urges the longest I've been able to go without breaking was 5 days and even then while the release is better than it usually is, it's still not enough for me.
Now I figured since I'm going to be stuck with this habit for a while I'd like suggestions on what I can do to at least make the act itself feel better or at the very least stop the depressing frustrating feelings I get after I cum.
>>18026595
You need sex.
expand your social network and get laid.
>but i have friends
Make more friends
>but i hate socializing
Socializing is the first step to getting laid.
>but i am awkward virgin bla blah blah
look you want better than fapping? That sex. find way to make sex happen.
Get fucking high as balls and come in her deep!!!! Fuck girls!!!
>>18026605
It all boils down to that doesn't it...
Well then will getting laid reduce the amount of times I fap in a day?
>>18026634
>I'm 30, still a virgin, first started masturbating 3 years ago
Are you implying you only learned how to masturbate when you're 27?
>>18026634
Yes. If being horny was being thirsty. Fapping is like having a sip or a mouthful of water. Sex is chugging a glass of water.
>>18026642
I'm saying I've never had an orgasm until I was 27.....Well I guess in a sense you're not entirely wrong either.
I didn't care about anything sexual for a long time it was only when I had a very close encounter with getting laid at 27 that something awakened in me.
Hookers
>>18026654
Health wise, most Hookers are risky and dangerous. I've thought about this but I wouldn't know where to go or what to do to find the safe clean hookers.
>>18026668
Some Escort site?
>>18026728
Such as????
>>18026668
>Hookers are risky and dangerous
Complete and utter bullshit. Hookers are far more likely to be clean than the random slut you can pull from a bar.
I guess you live in Burgerland? Take a vacation to a country where it's legal and/or easily available. Mexico/Latin America. Germany/Netherlands. Thailand. The choices are endless.
>>18026734
Fuck you man, it's you who wants to fuck so do a fucking search!
Man the fuck up
>>18026932
Why would you come here and be unpleasant?
>>18026734
Erotic review, Backpage. Not Craigslist.
>>18026595
>What's a good way to make masturbation more tolerable?
I like to shit into my hand and use it as lubricant.
It feels amazing, all hot and sloppy, just like fucking an ass
>>18026595
>What's a good way to make masturbation more tolerable?
Invest in sex toys
Also try jerking off to fictional porn instead, such as hentai or furry porn. I've noticed that when I jerk off to humans I am noticably more sexually frustrated and desperate than if I were to jerk off to furry porn.
Try sex via lucid dreaming as well
>>18027259
Fleshlights has been recommended to me alot....I've been thinking about it actually but I wouldn't know which one to get and I don't know of any sex shops that would sell them.
LMAO!!!! Nah man furry porn isn't my thing, I've fapped to hentai before though but it's no different than fapping to real life porn or my imagination.
What's sex via lucid dreaming though?
>>18027547
>Fleshlights has been recommended to me alot....I've been thinking about it actually but I wouldn't know which one to get and I don't know of any sex shops that would sell them.
Well tenga products have a good reputation and they seem popular
>What's sex via lucid dreaming though?
Being aware of dreaming while dreaming and controlling the dreams, sex being involved
https://www.reddit.com/r/LucidDreaming/comments/2cwv74/what_is_having_sex_in_a_lucid_dream_like/