Some girls occasionally hit on me in my job and uni. Despite 1 girl that basically asked to be my gf when i was 15(cheater 1) and a girl i kind o dated for 5 months(cheated 2).
I was shy with the first one and kinda of afraid with the second, so they didnt knew me very well.
My sisters, ants and female cousins(males too) say that i've a great personality once someone get to know me, but i'm way too introverted.
Anyway, how do i talk with those girls at all? I want a relationship, but i dont have this urge to... i dont know. I must have some seriously trust issues now. If i could just relax around people who have interest in me maybe i would already have a gf.
Any advices? I've being wondering about this for so long now.
>>18025561
>aunts
Fix.
Practice.
Yes you'll look and sound like a creep a few times, but until you go out and talk to women, nothing is going to change.
>>18025577
i do talk with women without sounding like a creep, sometimes, but i dont know how do you evolve to something more intimate. When to just kiss or touch without looking like a molester or having to ask... but, like you said, it must be practice.
>>18025606
taking a chance is the only way
there will be moments when you think fuck I want to kiss them and and they might be thinking the same but both at times are just too hesitant kind of subtle bragging here but I'm an introverted cunt who finally manned up and made a move and it was reciprocated
>>18025561
Keep talking to girls. In my case I get along with 1 in 20 and not all of these become my gf. I probably need 50 to get a match.
Keep contact, months pass before they know me.
And, pic related.