Cheating

>>18023020
No. Stop trying to justify yourself. Don't cheat.

>>18023041
I wasn't trying to justify shit. Just seeing what the consequences might be.

People who cheat are gross and evil. Then again so are people who commit rinancial market fraud but if there is millions in it I'd still do it.

>>18023020
Go for it pal

>>18023062
You done it? Was guilt a problem? Ever get caught? Any tips? I was thinking tinder hook up.

I found out my boyfriend did from a mutual friend of ours

I threw all of his stuff onto the rainy sidewalk and told him if he ever contacted me again that I would get my brother who is a police officer involved. He cried. It felt good.

>>18023081
Op here. That's exactly how I eould react if my gf did it. Wouldn't blame her. It's straight up shameful. Might sill do it tho. I want some new pussy. Probably a blonde.

>>18023090
It's on you if you choose the be unfit to be in a serious relationship. The guilt will eat you alive though.

>>18023129
Thanks for the input. Probs not worth it. Maybe i should go back to porn and sexual apathy. That or put some serious work into cucking my gf. I wonder if she will do it if i tell her I'm thinking about other women and it's hurting our relationship?

>>18023020
Have you talked to her? Let her know you just want to fuck slut. Nothing more. Unless...you do want more.

I have in a past relationship, but looking back I didn't care so much about her. I'm not someone with a lot of self control especially when drunk, but with my current gf I had an opportunity where I was drunk and 100% she couldn't find out, and I was horny as fuck, and I could resist because my current gf is so great and I love her a lot.

The ex gf I chested on, she didn't even cross my mind much when I did it. But with the last opportunity, I just could only think about my gf, how much I like her and that rubbing my dick on the inside of some girl wasn't worth the guilt even if she wouldn't find out. The reason I didn't do it was really because in my mind I could not have the coexisting ideas that I can love her this much yet also cheat.

But yeah if your gf is just some convenience gf go for it

>>18023142
Nah i haven't. I am worried it will make her not trust me. I have asked about mff threesomes and she said maybe in like 10 years and the girl can suck my dick but not fuck me. Was very surprised but kinda encouraging.

Definitely just want to fuck a slut and hear a different voice squeal. She completes me as a person. She is perfect personality wise. Just want other pussy. Probably also because she is the only girl I have fucked.

>>18023049
>People who cheat are gross and evil
>>18023072
>I was thinking tinder hook up

are you retarded

>>18023151
Yeah i think you are right. Definitely not a convenience gf. I love her to bits.

>>18023157
Nope. Very intelligent, confident, good looking and socially capable. I just wanna dominate a different person, preferably one with daddy issues who will let me disrespect her a bit while also telling her she's gorgeous to fuck with her mind. Just the idea gets me excited. I'm not a psycho tho. Promise I would feel guilty.

>>18023153
Eheheh she sounds like me. I have very specific things I would want my boyfriend to follow if he were to fuck someone else. (Ex. must be with a condom) I don't want sloot vagoogoo juices all over my bf's glorious dong.

But that aside, yeah I think it'll take a bit of time. I personally don't want any other dick, but I can understand my bf wanting other pussy. It's hard to choose ONE woman to fuck when there's so many types of women (all of which can be very appealing). Maybe she'll come around to understanding that?

>>18023183
Thanks for the insight. Any tips on the best way to approach it? Were you there for him fucking the sloots?

Would it be consoling to know I don't respect them?

>>18023139
>I wonder if she will do it if i tell her I'm thinking about other women and it's hurting our relationship?
Unless she has severe self esteem issues she would just leave you as most sane girls would

>>18023153
>I am worried it will make her not trust me
and you are correct. Assuming she doesn't outright leave, every time you guys fuck she will just be thinking the whole time about why she isn't enough for you and what she can do to be enough for you. Wondering if you're already getting what she can't give you on the side and constantly questioning your loyalty. She will get nervous seeing you glance at other girls because she will wonder if THEY are what you're actually looking for because she's not enough. Eventually it will be too much and she will leave you

>Probably also because she is the only girl I have fucked.
desu this is why I would never date a virgin. the lack of experience makes them want things just because they have no idea what they actually have and what it's like

if you really love someone, having sex with another person is not nearly has good as you imagine it to be

>>18023162
Yeah then really ask yourself, is ejaculating inside some random girl worth risking that for? I don't mean risk in the sense that your gf will find out, but in the sense that you betray your feelings for her, and grow increasingly tense every time she shows you affection

>>18023200
Pretty much every sane girl has some level of self esteem issues. She loves me so much like always asks how she ever got someone as great as me and is always worried that I'm going to get bored and leave her even though i have never threatened to. She said she would have no idea what she would do without me and owes her success to me because I have built her up so much and convinced her she can go into the career she wanted to (law) and mentored her the whole way. She won't leave me, but you are right about the next bit. I don't want to make her real insecure and breach trust.

I have a lot of experience with other girls just never PiV sex. Not that different. How am i supposed to know what I have is so good? In fact how are you supposed to know what i have in the bedroom is so good?

Yeah i definitely love her. Don't see why that would make dominating a little minx any less hot though desu

>>18023208
Yeah you are absolutely right. Definitely not worth cheating. My only option is to convince her to be my submissive little cuck. I have already laid the groundwork.

>>18023193
I suppose the best way is to be completely honest with each other. My bf has walked me through how a male perceives females and how he's susceptible to these urges as well. It took me a couple of months to wrap my head around the concept but I get it. HA! Yeah, women are fucking dumb. But let your gf know that you're glad she's different and not a total cunt...for the most part lel. Women still have a natural tendency be bitchy, complain and be emotional. Try to be patient with her but still treat her like a woman- YOUR woman :>

He actually hasn't fucked anyone else yet. We're both been busy and haven't had the time to look into a suitable sloot for him to fuck. (I ain't taking any chances of shitty STDs). If and when the time comes though, I don't really want to be in the room- but he wants me there.

>>18023183

>men role-playing women

Just don't

>>18023228
I'm just a well trained gf desu~

>>18023224
If that works for you (and her), whatever floats your boat.

Why is this so important for you though? Do you feel like you're missing out otherwise? Do you have many other past lays or are you playing catch-up?

>>18023238

The only comfort is that you'll start to believe your dumb rp and in six months start hormones, chop your dick off, and end up a prostitue like every other mtf tranny

>>18023238
>>18023183
>Some fat neck beard is typing this up in his mom's basement
4chan truly is a magical place

Also anyone notice the captcha is getting increasingly intrusive? Like in the past you just had to type dick butt or something, then you had to click three images, now you either have to click images 3-4 times (it'll just tell you it was wrong so they can get more data) or do the drawing thingy.

Seriously makes me consider stop using 4chan

>>18023222
>Pretty much every sane girl has some level of self esteem issues
yes, but it takes pretty severe self esteem issues to stay with a guy who blatantly disrespects you like that

but the way you discribed her, she's going to be absolutely devestated if you either try to fuck another girl with her or she founds out you cheated, but will probably just bottle up all the feelings and hate herself and feel like a failure as a girlfriend. hope busting a nut in some random is worth forever damaging her self worth and perception of men

>How am i supposed to know what I have is so good?
that's what you get for settling down in a serious relationship before getting more experience to know what you want. that's the risk you run

>In fact how are you supposed to know what i have in the bedroom is so good?
Stop being so defensive. I'm not assuming what you have is good, it's you who keeps claiming how much you love her and how great she is yet saying you want to betray her for the sake of a played up fantasy and getting your dick wet. that's on you

>Don't see why that would make dominating a little minx any less hot though desu
because you really don't have the life or relationship experience. honestly you won't get it until you're balls deep in some slut and can only think about your girlfriend and how hurt she would be if she found out, or afterwards when the shame will overwhelm you. the fantasy won't be as good as you expect, you'll feel guilty during it, and ashamed/paranoid afterwards. It's not worth it.

>>18023238
>>18023226
Well trained indeed.

>how males percieve females
Elaborate. All men are different.

>don't want to be on the room
Don't blame you but if i were you I also wouldn't want it to happen at all. What if she lets him do all sorts of nasty shit he's only been able to fantasise about? Wouldn't you get jealous?

The more I think about this the more I think that it might be way easier to just convince her to let me do really rough, dominant, dirty shit to her. Maybe that will satisfy my cravings more. As she has gotten more successful she likes being dominated less and respected more in bed. I see why: it's a sexist world and she is respectable. I just wish we could let fantasy be fantasy.

>>18023241
Will work for me. Probably not her.

I just crave it since I quit porn and my sex drive overtook hers. See>>18023254 also.

I have zero past lays but decent sexual experience otherwise.

>>18023245

you can actually go into settings and bring back the old captcha. this ones considered better becuase you just click with your mouse but it is time consuming.

>>18023245
Ahahaha solved a shitty captcha just to agree with you.

>>18023248
Thanks for the input. Would definitely feel guilty. Good reason not to.

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>>18023244
>>18023245
I guess you can argue my hands aren't pretty but that would be stereotyping huh? NO WOMAN COULD POSSIBLY THINK THESE THINGS. THEY DON'T EXIST. What ever makes you sleep better, anons

And yessu, I've noticed it too. Captcha is getting pretty annoying.

>>18023020
My boyfriend cheated on me and it was heart breaking. It was a little over two years into our relationship. Ex from a past relationship just came out of nowhere to his house after several years of no contact with a bad ending. Said she was having issues in her current relationship and still loved my bf. Bf was conflicted. They had half-done sex because bf could not get it up for her.

It was so badly played because bf and I had plans that day. We had stayed out late the night before, and I thought I was just letting him sleep in but she was actually over at his house. When he ignored me for the entire day I started to freak out. His ex's current bf reached out to me via facebook. We met up and drove to her house (she wasnt there). Then we drove to his house and he came out. We argued, screaming at each other. Her bf just charged into the house, literally dragged her out and pulled her down the stairs and all (she was only wearing my bf's shirt).


We broke up for about 9 months. Emotions were severely high. I was just crushed and went on antidepressants again because my self esteem threw up. I just wanted it all to go away in the beginning. All our friends knew and bf was extremely guilty and knew he screwed up.


At first, I just wanted to get back with him just to go back to normal. That was wrong, because nothing was normal and it would never be the same. But around that nine month period, bf and I started to slowly spend more time together. We talked about it. He was beyond ashamed. He asked me if there was a way we could start dating again.

He has shown me, every step of the way, that he can be what I deserve. It's been almost 5 years since the incident. I don't know what I was expecting. I wasn't expecting it to last this long, thats for sure. But in the end, I am happy that we got back together. Most people think it's such a terrible thing. In a way, it has brought us closer.

That being said, still wish it never happened

>>18023264
Them lips. Man I want to fuck them.

I swear noporn makes you into a fucking animal.

>>18023264

Lol that is the most poorly shoped image I have ever seen and I used to lurk on /b/ back in the day.

>>18023265
Thanks for taking the time to share this. Thought of it makes me feel sick. In hindsight, would you rather he ask you to dress like a teenybobber in pigtails and fuck you dominantly, pulling your hair while he pushes your face into the matress while calling you his sexy little princess?

>>18023275
>>18023271
On second thought i agree. Need to see the same timestamp but with two fingers deep in your mouth till I believe you're not a trap.

>>18023278
this is what makes experienced daters so annoying

break up with your gf, sleep around like you want, then settle down with someone when you're actually ready for it

>>18023278
Honestly, we always had a very vivid, intense, and pleasurable sex life. In that department, he was satisfied.


His cheating wasn't about sex. It was more emotional than it was physical.

>>18023292
*inexperienced
But things are going so well. I just want more hardcore fuckings. No biggy.

/adv/ always says just break up because it's not your relationship so you don't give a shit.

>>18023295
That is so so so much worse. You should just break up in that scenario. If i were in his position I would have broken up ages ago. This is just a physical desire for me. She is my best friend and we have a brilliant emotional connection which makes me not listen to people saying break up.

>>18023298
Any scenario of cheating is terrible.

If you have strong emotions for your gf, you'd recognize that your physical longing for another woman compromises your emotional connection with her.

>>18023304
Yeah i do realise that hence the dilemma numb nuts.

>>18023306
Then you don't have a strong emotional connection with her?

Because if you did, the answer would be simple: Don't.

Best advice, OP, don't fucking cheat.

As for my experience, I can't handle the guilt of cheating and what it'd do to someone I give a shit about.

But the "oh no, guilt" card doesn't fix the problem that I can't stop having fixations on other people every couple of years. For me it's a bit shittier than simply wanting to fuck and duck. For me, I tend to meet a coworker or peer who I get very close to, as friends, and wind up having feelings for. Then I end up in the shitty situation of, "does this mean I leave my current relationship or let this feeling die out?"

After eight years of bearing it, and it happened six times with different people, just letting the feeling die out (and the relationship did suffer for this) I ended the relationship and dated someone else for eight months. Didn't work out.

Like a fucking jackass, I reconnected with the ex and restarted that relationship. Thought maybe all I needed was to experience giving into those feelings once and maybe I'd appreciate my relationship better.

Fast forward to now, relationship and all it's past problems are back, things are south as fuck, and I'm falling hard for a coworker (for the fuckbillionth time) who apparently fell for me day one. Woops.

So now I think I'm just going to fucking break relationships with everyone because I'm probably simply just not good at relationships. Managed a rocky one for eight years but that person deserves a lot better than a partner who's always falling for other people. Which I think might be a bit shittier than simply wanting to fuck other people, I think that strikes a much deeper wound in a woman. I feel like shit for that because I love her, she's the person I'd want to be with endgame sixty, eighty years from now, but she deserves someone better than me.

Just break up and Don't Do Relationships for a few years. Get it out of your system. Try again later.

>>18023296
More like people are desperate enough to ask adv when trying to justify their Their shitty behavior

>no biggy
You are in a monogamous relationship. It is a "biggy". If you gave a shit about your girlfriend or had more knowledge of relationships you might see that

>>18023310
No we have a very strong emotional connection. I still want to dominate little sluts.

>>18023311
Ehhh nah sounds shit. My situation isn't the same as yours because I just wanna fuck some lil hoes. Thanks for your story though man. Hope it works out.

>>18023314
>desperate
You're right this requires immense sacrifice on my part to get some extra input and experiences. You sound salty as fuck.

OP, you're either baiting or a fucking scumbag. I don't think you realize how retarded it is that you think you can say "i love my gf" while talking about either cheating on her, or "breaking her self esteem" and convincing her to let you sleep with other women. You don't love her. You just know that you most likely wouldn't find anyone else to be with you if you two break up, probably because you know you're a piece of shit. If this isn't bait, my advice would be for you to kill yourself, because "people" like you are scum.

>>18023327
I'm starting to think you don't actually post here regularly

>>18023335
Terrible advice from more salty losers. Not surprised.

When did i say I would break her self esteem? I just want to convince her that me fucking a slut or dominating her like a slut isn't a breach of her self esteem.

I could easily find someone else, but she's my best friend. I like spending time with her and her family heaps.

The fact that you put 'people' in quotes shows you're just an edgy little bitch-boy. I have exactly no desire to kill myself and it makes me crack a smile that you're so mad right now. Keep it up, I can feel your blood pressure from here.

>>18023342
I don't. That's not a shameful thing.

Mate, I've cheated on my girlfriend 100's of times. Mainly with whores but with civilians too. Rule no 1, always rubber up. rule 2, keep your pubes short so no crabs. rule 3, never tell her. She'll never know. You need to disconnect love and sex in your mind, then you don't even feel guilty. Also if your going to have a mistress, don't let her know you have a girlfriend. Also also, its an expensive thing to have more than one girlfriend.

>>18023347
If you are simply going to dismiss anything you don't want to hear then why are you asking for advice at all? You don't want advice. You need people to tell you its okay to cheat because you know that it isn't. So you seek the validation of others. Interesting that someone as weak willed as you would call someone else out on being an edgy little bitch. You are completely and utterly unprincipled. You are driven by the desire for meaningless pleasure.

>>18023354
Hey man thanks for offering the other perspective. I don't need any emotional connection so keeping it just sex would be easy. I never actually thought of using whores. That's an awesome idea. Didn't even cross my mind because tinder is so easy, but it would definitely be the best way. Always wanted to fuck a little asian prostitute so maybe that's the way to go. Can maybe even get gf permission if it is just a whore. Win win! Thx bud :D

>>18023351
My post was about people exactly like you. Making threads because you want anons to help justify your shitty opinion or decision, but getting defensive and angry when just about no one agrees with you and tells you it's a bad idea. You'd don't want advice, you want a cheerleading squad for your inability to be a faithful boyfriend

>>18023354
>Mate, I've cheated on my girlfriend 100's of times
>have to disconnect love and sex in your mind
is this really what you want to become?

>>18023315
This is exactly what I am saying. Your emotional connection is not strong enough if you want to fuck sluts behind her back and think everything will be okay.

>>18023358
You didn't give any advice you just said 'bitch bitch sad sad kys so i can stop being sad.'

>>18023081
You're disgusting.

>>18023372
I have engaged civilly with the majority of people in this thread telling me not to do it. The only people I'm not listening to are salty cunts who are just angry for no reason.

>what you want to become?
Nah i would still feel guilty, not if I can convince her though.

>ITT a literal nigger tries to justify his animalistic behavior/feelings

>>18023378
You're a girl right? All guys know you can still have a great emotional connection while wanting to fill up some foreign pussy. I don't think everything eould be okay though which is why I've decided the best way to go is get permission.

>>18023393
Op here. Nah i think thats fair.

>>18023399
Blonde hair blue eyes m8. Would probably give you nazis a hard on and make you want to put me into a gene spreading program. Try again loser.

>>18023347
You sound surprised to hear that people generally look down on people like yourself. Does it shock you that most normal people think you and people like you are disgusting pieces of trash? You're calling everyone who points out what a worthless slug you are "losers" while not realizing that a majority of people think the same about cheaters.

>>18023400

As a woman, posts like these just convince me that when I get a boyfriend I should cheat on and cuck him first before he does me and make me regret not cheating on my first boyfriend.

Do you think we women don't crave all kinds of dick? We do. I thought it was just something people of all genders repressed though, since it was unspoken that actually following i would lead to hurt and was generally a shitty thing to do. But if all men are just going to cheat and can still "love" me, why shouldn't I do the same. I can take dick after dick and still love my bf.

>>18023415
Yeah I feel the same. The idea disgusts me. I haven't done it, just have the desire. Actions are what's important.

I don't mind you calling me a slug, but don't then complain with crocodile tears that I'm not taking your advice on board.

>>18023417
Infidelity rates suggest you're not too wrong. I will say though being in a faithful relationshio have been an effortless pleasurable breeze. I just want more pussy, just like you want to sit on bulk dick.

>>18023407
>Nazis
Sorry Jamal, but I don't think you know what a nazi is, you dumb nigger.
>Blonde hair blue eyes m8
Whatever you say bitch boy.

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>>18023432
Yeah because nazis don't hate niggers, do they, expert.

>>18023394
>I have engaged civilly with the majority of people in this thread telling me not to do it.
Which ends with you essentially ignoring all advice because it doesn't enable you

grow up

>>18023453
You didn't read the thread did you? I've already decided I'm probably not going to cheat on her. I'll convince her to do real nasty shit for me, and if they doesn't scratch the itch I'll get permission to fuck a lil asian whore.

Might want to at least read the thread before you pretend to know everything.

>>18023248
(1/2)
I can’t recall exactly how my bf explained it to me. But from what I understand, man has an innate desire to spread his seed. The more you spread it, the higher the chances of you passing on your genes/creating offspring etc. That desire hasn’t gone away. Men were never meant to have one woman. Women on the other hand only need one mate. A mate to stay and take care of her and her offspring. How does she keep his interest? By being and remaining appealing. Whether it’s through intelligence or superficial looks, people have qualities that others will find attractive. Fetishes aside, I think most people are attracted to many different types of people. Big honkers, small tushes, bear mode or otter boys. It’s hard to claim that you’re only attracted to one person…forever. On the contrary, I do think it’s THAT much more sweeter and wonderful when a person is able to say, “hey, you’re the only one I want to be with.” Because while I like and want all these different types of things, I actively choose to remain with YOU. That being said, I do think if your partner loves you and wants you to be happy, she would be willing to let you fuck another girl. Buttt, I also have a double standard on women and think that women shouldn’t fuck any other men lololol. >I’ll wait for the feminist bricks to hit me now
I probably wouldn’t present it that way I said it. Nor would I say, “IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME, LET ME FUCK OTHER GIRLS.” Women tend not to take that well. I think the best way is to become extremely comfortable with each other. When you trust and love each other I think each party will have a strong want to make their partner happy. But of course, take all this with a grain of salt since this is all coming from personal experience.

Well OP, after reading most of this thread I guess I'll throw my two cents in.

Based on personal experience I don't think you love your girlfriend as much as you say or think you do. I've cheated on exes in the past with absolutely no remorse. I am also dating someone now, and when we first got together he was in a LTR of four years. He cheated on her with me for a few months, felt bad and obviously ended it at some point. I didn't feel bad for her at all; I wanted to fuck on her bed because I thought it would be funny.

So now that you know a little about me/my partner, neither of us would ever cheat on the other. We have a very healthy relationship, no trust issues, communicate about everything, etc. If there's something new we want to try in bed, we talk about it and at least give it an attempt. The fact that you want to try new things in bed and your reaction is to try them with someone else/cheat on your GF is a huge flag. Why wouldn't you talk to her about trying it first?

>>18023469
>I wanted to fuck on her bed because I thought it would be funny.
Wow. Baffles me that he still wanted to be with someone this cold/cruel.

>>18023476
He regrets not doing it. It's one of his biggest regrets in our relationship. We are very compatible.

>>18023478
Okay, well at least that saves two people of dating you heartless fuckers. Don't procreate.

>>18023254
>>18023468
Sorry, quoted wrong person on the first part!
(2/2)
To be honest, yes I think I would be jealous. But that just means I have to try harder to be more attractive and hotter than my competition. Of course, if my bf likes white blonde chicks I can’t really change my race. But I do think I can play up my strengths :3

>>18023468
Yeah great way to explain it. You are right about the double standard though. I would fucking hate for her to get with another guy so it would be completely unfair to expect her to let me fuck others. Are you going to fuck others since your bf is?

>>18023469
Ahahaha thanks for sharing. Yeah I have talked with her about me wanting to dominate her more and wanting her to be my submissive little toy while emphasising that it doesn't mean I respect her any less. We haven't had sex since. Probably will today so we'll see how that goes.

>>18023475
You look white to me. Pretty much everyone our age is a mix now though.

>>18023490
So when you want to fuck someone else will your bf be okay with it?

>>18023490
I hope you deleted your other pic because you're about to deliver the 2 fingers deep in mouth. Bonus points for a bit of drool on lips. Then I'll really really believe you.

>>18023020
leave her so she can be with someone who is worth it and you can go off and be a manwhore.

>>18023536
>everyone who considers the idea of cheating is definitely a manwhore and not worth it.
Mkay i appreciate your input.

>>18023505
Hopefully that helped! Being able to talk to each other about anything is really great! Just be aware, girls will still have their depressive modes so just be sure to reassure her that she's the one you want to be with. A slut is just that- a slut.

Hell no.
My pussy belongs to my bby.

>>18023548
That is ideal. You should be friends with my gf and share your philosophy.

I think the ideal for now would be to just get her to act like my little slut in the bedroom. She's far more likely to go with that than to let me fuck a different slut. Plus I know she likes it deep down, she's just resisting against real world sexism and wants to be taken seriously in the professional world.

>>18023534
Oh whoops forgot to upload the pic I deleted. I already trashed it. Sorry, anon!

And nah, I've already succumbed to my womanly ways by basically posting a selfie. Gotta resist being a total sloot you know?

>>18023557
Haaha, I have rather unpopular opinions. I'm not so sure I get along with many people (men or women).

I'm not sure what the bedroom has to do with professionalism at all. I'm able to interact normally and carry out my duties at work like everyone else. It's not like once you engage in these things you're automatically a freak everywhere else lol. It's kinda why the bedroom exists. There's a designated spot for you to do your dirty activities. Anyways, experiment and have fun with your gal!!

Talk to her about it, for some people it works and for some people it doesn't. Take babysteps and make it able for either of you to take a step back and know it could fuck up your relationship.

Other people can't decide what's right for your relatonship you're two consenting adults. If she doesn't consent and you do it behind her back you're very obviously in the wrong and you deserve to die.

If you can't supress your urge about everything else can be right, but it will always be eating you on the inside. Can you potentionally supress your urge or not if she doesn't agree?

>>18023570
>gotta resist being a total sloot.
No fuck that show me fingers in mouth.

>>18023570
The bedroom has nothing to do with professionalism. She just believes men are way too in charge in the world and it pisses her off, so when i want to be super in charge in the bedroom it triggers that same part of her brain that says 'fuck your mysogyny'.

I just talked to her about it again and she said 'ill do it if you want me to do it but i won't care if I ever act submissive again.' Shit i wonder if we're incompatible.

>>18023598
Yeah babysteps and communication are definitely the way to move forward, if at all.

Let's see how it goes.

Cheers.

>>18023469
>Neither of us would ever cheat on the other
I'm sure his gf of 4 years thought the same thing as well.

>>18023646
This. Once a cheater always a cheater.

I cheated six years ago on my wife and things are almost just as bad then as when she found out. I'm planning my exit from the marriage currently; she pretty much has ptsd at this point and keeps me on lockdown, threatens to kill herself and such when I try to leave but.

Take it from me, don't cheat. If there is someone you want to fuck, break up with your current lover first as cheating on someone destroys them - your relationship will never recover.

>>18023700
Yeah good point. I'll just tell her I'm breaking up with her and if she asks why I'll say I wanna fuck other girls. Sure she won't be broken at all.

>>18023706

Almost responded seriously, but then realized you are a sperg.

>>18023716
Go on give it a go. He's addicted to (you)s.

>>18023706
It's a perfectly reasonable reason though, you just don't word it like that.

>>18023721
What should I say? I want to see other people?

>>18023729
Yeah something along the lines I think you're great and you have been good to me, but I want to see other people. She will still be heartbroken and she or other people might not agree, but you do you without (unreasonably) harming others. You would be harming her more by staying with her and play on these urges without her consent then just leave her for what it is.

>>18023468

>Le faux biology meme

It's actually the opposite for humans, women should have more than one mate and fuck as many guys as possible. Why? Because humans are a species who's offspring are incredibly needy. A human male who has more offspring than one human female gains no advantage because he can't take care of those kids and they just die. Human females, on the other hand, not only increase the chances of their offspring surviving by having more than one mate, they also maximize their offspring fitness by fucking the highest quality males available. This is backed up by two things- the biology of the male penis and cultural anthropology. The male penis is shaped the way is is to scrap out sperm of other males. Females are meant to fuck multiple males and males have responded to this by changing penis shape. You see the same thing in other animal species where females fuck multiple males. As for cultural anthropology, the harshest environments such as Tibet, the Inuit peoples, people in central Asia have the highest rates of polygamy, because again the best way to combat high child mortaility rates is to have one woman and multiple men.

So yeah, protip for all you men roleplaying as women and trying to get women to accept cucking- never bring up biology because science is not on your side.

>>18023762

*anatomy of the male penis

>>18023748
Oh yeah no doubt it would harm her less than cheating, but what might result in no harm is keeping a fantasy a fantasy.

>>18023461
>I've already decided I'm probably not going to cheat on her
>probably
that's what makes you a shitty boyfriend

>I'll get permission to fuck a lil asian whore
and you're assuming that she will be okay with that, or that you trying to get her to be okay with that won't serve it damage your relationship. That's what makes you an idiot

>Might want to at least read the thread before you pretend to know everything
this is what I meant by grow up

>>18023772
*severely

>>18023767
Yeah I should add that only if there's no other way he should do this. If it starts eating him up on the inside it's for the best, but first communicate and try to see how it works out if it's either a yes or a no.

>>18023548

>My pussy belongs to my bby

You have got backwards. His dick should belong to you and your pussy should belong to everyone :3

>>18023570

Seriously, be a sloot yourself. IT's so enjoyable. Get that pussy licked, fucked, and pumped full of cum. Then go back home and have your bf slurp it out. Fuck handsome, sexy, successful men and have your lower quality man raise them. Trust me, you'll be so much happier and you'll be making the species better.

Do you know how turkeys mate? Two males pair up to perform a dance for a female. If the female likes the dance, she accepts them... but only lets one of the pair- the bigger, stronger, better looking male- fuck her. Humans are meant to operate the same way. It's the way we as a species progress. Some men just aren't meant to mate, but they justify their assistance by providing for your and your offspring. Embrace biology.

"Thus if an older man with a young wife should take a liking to one of the well-bred young men and approve of him, he might well introduce him to her so as to fill her with noble sperm and then adopt the child as his own." -Plutarch

Even the ancients knew what biology was telling them

>>18023772
Your advice is noted. :) thanks for your input.

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>>18023788
Degenerate whore leave now

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>>18023802
Just retard. Into the gulag you'll go.

Your feelings regard embarrassing your other. I sense she has enveloped some thing in your soul. Do you feel like she has taken advantage of you and you are seeking justice?

>>18023828
Kek. Greeks are cucked as fuck

>>18023834


Even 4chan deep down knows the truth. Every time there's a thread on threesomes, whether it's here, on /soc/ or /gif/ or any other board, the majority of responses are about mmf. Cuck threads are tone of the most popular threads. /r9k/ is a whole board that proves that men have no inherent value, that women search for the best genes possible.

>>18023841
Nah i don't want to embarrass her. Ideally I'd want her there and into it. She shows me nothing but respect I'm just not sexually satisfied.

>>18023849
4chan being full of beta cucks doesn't mean that's the best way to live.

>>18023020
I'm in a different boat. My wife agreed to a don't ask don't Tell policy on whores but I can't figure out how to actually sleep with them when we can't go back to my place (because wife is there). Anyone got experience with this? Isn't it kinda weird to get a hotel in your mid 20s?

>>18023839

>reality is retarded

Also, I forgot to add, the reason why men don't really have emotions is because having attachments hinders their biology. Women love and form attachments because the more men she keeps around the higher the chances of their collective offspring surviving. She is meant to have multiple men and keep them. Men on the other hand know their mates are meant to fuck others, and attachments and jealously are dangerous to this situation.

>>18023856

It's not just 4chan- look at any pron or relationship website. Cuck porn is a huge industry and most "poly" relationships have the women easily fucking multiple men and the man fucking none or very few other women.

The truth is all around you, just relax and accept it. It's not bad at all. You'll love your wife. You'll love and be friends with the other guys she fucks. You'll love all the kids she produces, and if your lucky one might even be yours! You'll live happy life and make yourself useful, improving and protecting the species.

>>18023884
Golly gosh! Suicide is becoming popular, I guess I should do it too!

>>18023884
No thanks. I'm not into that. Appreciate that you accept people but it's not my cup of tea so I'm not going to do your fetish thx :D

>>18023859
That's a great policy except i wouldn't be able to handle knowing my wife was fucking heaps of dudes and just not telling me. Yeah I would get a hotel or just a nice car. Or go to a brothel and just fuck actual whores.