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Should I break up with my girlfriend? 2017-02-05 01:55:37 Post No. 18022708
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Should I break up with my girlfriend? 2017-02-05 01:55:37 Post No. 18022708
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And by break-up, I mean also stop talking to her forever. I'm an autist and I can't help but look at this situation from an objective point of view and list off the cons and the pros of the decision, so please tolerate my autism.
Pros
>I’ll stop being judged for dating her since the age gap between us is huge
>I’ll get more time and feel better since she’s annoying, needy and clingy
>She'll form relationships with people her age, which is what is healthy to do
>We’ll both be better off since our relationship stresses us out
Cons:
>She’ll be depressed; I’m one of the few people in her life
>I’m coming off as selfish
>Her love life in the future may be tainted by this one experience
>I may start to miss her eventually, though doubtful
My sentimental side is telling me not to do it, but the pros outweight the cons, or maybe I'm just trying to justify my scummy decision.
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It sounds like the only thing stopping you from breaking up with her is the fear of hurting her feelings. I think you should do whatever you feel is the most beneficial to you. It may come across and selfish but it's the only way you can effectively move forward in life.
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Ages?
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>>18022713
16 to 20 (it's legal over here and we haven't had sex regardless). I've been uncomfortable from the start but we were both desperate, but now that we've constantly been getting reactions from other people for months now, I'm sick of it.
>>18022712
I guess I'm just afraid she'll do something stupid.
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>>18022724
If you had to type out a long back story and think it over for as long as you have that suggests that deep down you know the answer is yes.
What she does over the break up is not your doing. What she does is not your problem. Its cold yes but, that's life. If roles were reversed and she fell out of love with you she'd dump you and find a new lover in a week.
It's life.
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>>18022729
>f roles were reversed and she fell out of love with you she'd dump you and find a new lover in a week.
Certainly, I'm going to dump her, but I don't know if cutting contact completely is excessive or warranted. I think it's the best for the both of us, but she may want to keep me as a friend, something I don't want.
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>>18022738
Just do whatever you want, life is yours.
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