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In a relationship, we're both young. But she had sex at age 14 or so, with one guy, once, and it was alcohol related and she felt abused. I know I should be her biggest ally and I am and I do my very best but it just makes me mad for no good reason at all. I wanted to marry a virgin. It's incredibly selfish in some ways, I know, but it's been on my mind nonstop for months. I'm a virgin, we've been together for a long time. She's my best friend and I restructured my life to make hers better and I really do want to put a ring on it but theres that one issue that's making me feel pretty shitty, much more than it should. Can someone talk me through it, give some input. Just needed it to get off my chest, I guess. Thanks for your time, bless you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-X5OUn_3y0
here's a good tune in exchange for your troubles.
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You're unhappy because you feel that she didn't share her first special moment with you. Don't treat her virginity as a prize and you'll be better off for it. She hated her first time, so you're in luck. Fuck her well and she'll always think you're a god compared to the other person.
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give it time. don't feel bad about yourself, the way you feel is very understandable
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>>18021474
thanks man, I'll try.
>>18021522
thanks, I'm gonna remember that. It's so unimportant in the grand scheme of things and I think there are more important things I need to work on.
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>>18021457
Your feelings are normal, almost every guy has this possessive impulse, it doesn't have to be a bad thing.
The thing you gotta realize is this - You're never going to find "the perfect one." Every single relationship has its ups and downs, every relationship requires compromise, every girl you meet is going to have one or two qualities that piss you off.
If THIS is the biggest problem in your relationship, you're doing fucking great. Don't throw away, sabotage, or neglect a relationship that is 95% perfect just because you can't let go of that 5%. The grass isn't greener on the other side. It sounds like you really do love her, and you'll probably always regret it if you let her go over something so trivial.
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>>18021547
The amount of compromise she makes for me is mind-boggling. I hit the jackpot and so I just gotta focus on myself. But this was the one thing I needed to get cleared up and you're helping me come to peace. Thanks a ton.
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