It's about a girl, we are both in mid 20s. We met 1.5y ago, while she was still in a relationship with a guy for 7y+. I got attracted to her immediately and we somehow kept in touch every other month or so. Last year before summer she broke up with her boyfriend, I moved to her city because of work and things got interesting. We hung out a lot, she was at my place often, we travelled together for trips & holidays ... I really though this was it, after 8 years of me being single I saw some hope for us. We spend NY together and after that she suddenly didn't speak so much and refused to see telling me she has some other stuff she needs to focus (exams in med uni mostly) and that she needed some time for her self, that she doesn't want any obligations and that we can be friends for now.
I have a hard time trying to make sense out of this, can you help me out /adv? How should I proceed, should I cut contacts and make it clear that I dont want to be treated like this? She wants me to keep writing to her, wtf? Was I just a break up guy?
>>18014352
>I have a hard time trying to make sense out of this
How? She's not into you. Seems pretty simple to me.
>>18014355
This unfortunately buddy. The best thing you can do is cut her off, they come and go. Life is unfair
>>18014355
>>18014357
She's saying that she is into me, but doesn't want the relationship at the moment and that I should give her some pause.
>>18014357
Yeah, I understand this is the best option for me, to cut her off. Fuck, that will be hard to do.
Did you fuck her?
>>18014415
I'd say no, he seems to be too much of a pussy and she doesn't appear to be a lesbian.
>>18014415
Of course, duhh
>>18014444
Why I am a pussy now?