I am a 20 year old male, never kissed or had sex.
I had some opportunities, yet every time I did not act on them, because I was fucking afraid of kissing a girl and I am right now.
1) It would be a first kiss, so I want it to be at least somehow memorable.
2) The girl I will kiss the first will know for sure I have no experience at all.
Anyone with similar experience?
>>18012763
I don't care about mine being memorable or not. I'm just more worried about the whole inexperience thing. I'm 19 about to be 20, and have never kissed anyone because I was a fatass in high school. Now I'm in good shape and am ready to get into a relationship, but have no kissing (or anything else, obviously) experience.
>>18012763
>Anyone with similar experience?
First kiss at 23
>1) It would be a first kiss, so I want it to be at least somehow memorable.
This was memorable to me because it was the first person I fell for. I still remember every detail of this half a decade+ later.
But knowing my personality, if i didn't give a shit. I wouldn't remember a single bit of it.
In fact, case in point: I don't remember my first experience having sex, pretty much at all.
>2) The girl I will kiss the first will know for sure I have no experience at all.
No. She won't. Most people are shit at kissing anyway.
>>18012769
Follow up (forgot to add this bit to the end)
From someone who's done all this shit even later than you:
Get out of your own head. You're just making yourself crazy.
>>18012763
Just watch movies lol
Seriously, just see what they do when they kiss in films (Horns helped me a lot) and try to copy.
At worst, you'll be a bad kisser, but it's alright as long as you don't eat her face.
Also, isn't there a "kiss like a champ" video like the "eat pussy like a champ" tutorial?
>>18012766
>I don't care about mine being memorable or not.
Well just go to a club and wait, opportunities will arise. But I rejected all of those.
>>18012770
My parents never ever touched me (or each other), except for a hug after not seeing each other for a long time.
I don't really struggle with speaking to girls, but body contact and, well, sexual escalation for me just unbelievably hard... I never touch anyone. But I guess I need to push through.
>>18012763
I dated a very inexperienced guy in my early 20s and the first kiss was quite frankly awful. But he learned quick. Just don't worry about it too much, don't try too hard and follow her lead. Practice makes perfect, so it's really the ones that come after the first kiss that are memorable.