I feel like an idiot. Need advice.

Just drop it dude. You were probably a rebound.

>>18012467
The problem is that I see her everywhere and her social group knows I have a crush on her. I don't know how to socially recover from this gracefully.

>>18012525

...by pretending that it didn't happen. Seriously, it's the best route to go.

>>18012615
Thanks.
I'm still tempted to ask a mutual friend. I know I can trust him. I seriously need closure, unrequited affection hurts.

have some self respect and know when to stop giving some random bitch attention

>>18012430
Similar situation recently. Had sex with a girl a few times. Awesome. Had went on a few dates before. Never talked about what either of us were looking for - to be frank, I didn't have an idea either, but the sex was so good I wanted to see her again. Reached out to her a few times, but she won't commit to plans and the texts are very short and spaced out. I dropped it after trying to arrange something a few times. Some women are too polite to tell you what's up. You gotta fill in the blanks yourself. Don't confront her.

>>18012622
I wish I knew what the fuck went through my head when I attempted to contact her the last time.

>>18012623
This exactly. We never talked about us and she just seems too polite to tell me to stop. I know realize that confronting her would make things even worse.

>>18012623
>Some women are too polite to tell you what's up.

literally all women*

>>18012646
Not always. It seems to be about 50/50 for me. Some women will be direct about what they want - or why it wouldn't work out. Others just leave you hanging - which is an answer in itself.

>>18012634
It's not strange to want an answer. Just remember that silence is one, too. Nothing wrong with a few nights of fun and no bigger picture between the two of you. Just play it off. When you see her, smile and don't avoid eye contact. If she wants to talk, be polite. Simple acknowledgment. Just be courteous and act like your normal self, with the imagery of you fucking her out of your head.

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>>18012621
> I seriously need closure, unrequited affection hurts.
Wow. She really has your balls in her handbag, doesn't she?

Time to grow up. The reason she's ignoring you is that you mistook a couple of fucks for feelings. You probably were a lousy fuck, and she wants no more of your shit.

You messaged her. She refused, and didn't offer an alternative date. She's not interested. Cut bait and sail on.

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Thanks for replies.
Feels bad, man.