How do you have sex with someone you are not attracted to?
I'm in an arranged marriage, but I do genuinely love my wife, with all my heart. She's smart, beautiful, kind, and very attracted to me. She's also my best friend.
Unfortunately, I am just not attracted to women. I've known this my whole life. I don't have any desire to run out and have casual sex with men, to cheat on my wife, to date, or to do the bar scene. That at sounds like hell to me. I just want to settle down and have a family with this person I love.
But my penis is fucking betraying me. I want to make my wife happy, but getting aroused in very difficult. Meanwhile, if an attractive guy accidentally brushes up against me at work, it is incredibly distracting and I am immediately turned on.
My wife knows all of this - I don't hide my struggles from her - but it makes her very sad because she is still very attracted to me.
I've gotta get it up, /adv/
Viagra? Watch gay porn before the deed?
Don't be a faggot?
Don't spread your faggot genes.
Role play. Imagination goes far if you both can get into it. However, on the flip side... She deserves to be able to have a sexual relationship with someone. So do you. And maybe remaining close will help but ultimately you should try and be with someone who you can be close with and romantic with. its healthier that way.
Be with a real man, life is short be with someone you want to fuck and be with. Have your wife as a friend.
>>18008487
Viagra
Could you and your wife not come to some sort of arrangement where you can have sex with other people, but keep it between yourselves so your families don't have to know?
>>18008487
being gay is a bacterial disease.
i didin't save the post from /pol/ but yeah, its a bacteria that incubates in the fetus and cause homosexuality.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dHmSmEbGuM
homosexuals are over-represented in suicide.
its really a disablity. its not ok to stick your dick into something where shit comes out, its not ok to stick something up your asshole and tear your sphincter apart.
George Lincoln Rockwell makes the claim that they were able to turn men away from homosexuality by literally praying away the gay and turning to christ.
don't be Gay op, you're already a faggot. but being gay is a step too far.
homosexuals cut their life expectancy by 25years. which is more devastating than smoking.
Many good ideas in here OP, take your pick, but good god don't listen to this cancerous copypasta shit >>18008697
>>18008697
>i didin't save the post from /pol/ but yeah, its a bacteria that incubates in the fetus and cause homosexuality.
I always find these fascinating, first came the roastie shit and now this.
>>18008778
The roastie stuff isn't from /pol/, it's an /r9k/ thing. The anti gay stuff is pretty divisive on /pol/ too. You'll have a large number of people calling being gay degeneracy, and then another large (but admittedly smaller) group saying that it's fine. I'm fairly certain that posts like >>18008697 outside of /pol/ are /qa/ trying to do their best to make the rest of 4chan hate /pol/.
>>18008787
Madman here who lurks 4plebs for mentions of /qa/.
Our hate is justified.
>>18008697
Kek. Ok.
>>18008487
Where are you from anon?
>>18008815
Wtf is /qa/ in the context of /pol/?
>>18008487
Afraid you can't fix this OP, try gay porn maybe but I think it's hopeless
>>18008487
Don#t set out to have sex with her. Do a lot of snuggling and cuddling, some of it naked. See if your body surprises you when you're not trying to direct it.
>>18008487
Mechanical Stimulation + Fantasy. Sexuality is mostly in the head, but long manual stimulation helps as well.