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I've never had any romantic relations with anyone until a few months ago. Now it's fucking up my life. I've always been attracted to women, but I never was interested in anyone enough to ever ask someone out. There were a few times I made out with girls and a little bit of heavy petting but I never followed up with that shit. And neither did they.
Anyway, back in October a girl who I had been friends with for a while starts cuddling with me and eventually goes ahead and grabs my dick. For a good long time. I, at the time was tripping balls. Around the peak of my shroom trip actually. So I was kind of sketched out, and didn't reciprocate with her at all. The next day she texts me saying she was sorry and felt like she used me and felt shitty about it. So I comforted her and basically said it was nothing, though it was probably something. I definitely was weird about it. Then she asks if I want to come over and I do, and we make out and we go a little farther and I go to finger her. She gets off so easily. I had never even done it before, but oh well, guess it worked. Then she starts going for my dick again, and tries to jerk me off, for like half an hour, and I just tell her to give up.
After this we're hanging out pretty often. Nothing gets said about a relationship or anything, but it's nice to have someone to cuddle with. And she's pretty cool to talk to. She still can never get me to cum. We'll sit there for sometimes up to an hour with me just going soft. Sometimes I even doze off. Meanwhile she orgasms like crazy. Multiple times when I go at it. We're both virgins, and she wants to save it for something special (I personally don't give a fuck) but I'm pretty frustrated about things not going both ways physically. So I end it all with her. We have the same friends, and it's just ugh. She shows up to parties I'm at just crying in the corner, she gets fucked up and is all over me, and I'm just in some really awkward situations.
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One night we're both drunk and I, like an idiot, come back to her place and the same shit happens. All for her, none for me. Though honestly, I do enjoy seeing her get off. The next morning it's like we're a thing and I'm just a pussy and go along with it. For like a month or two. She's super clingy, very sensitive, way more into me than I am into her, and it's just too much. I'm not in a great place myself either. So I end it again. This time is even worse. I was playing Catan with some friends and I take a break to go get some food and she takes over for me. She ruins the game for me on purpose, but whatever it's a board game. Who cares. Just really petty. On top of that she's throwing things at me all night and saying shit like she's allowed to be angry and I kind of just say nothing. That weekend, she's at another party I'm at, and me and a male friend are fucked up. So we think it's a great idea if we kiss for a funny picture and it was a great idea but she freaks out. The guy has a girlfriend. A long term one. But my ex is just sobbing, everyone is surrounding her helping her out and whatnot. I feel like a douche so I just leave. We weren't even together that long. We hadn't even fucked. She's way too into me.
Since then we've hung out a few more times. Each time I tell her "Hey I don't want to be in a relationship, if this is going to wreck you tell me now". But she keeps doing it and keeps getting wrecked. So I took it upon myself to stop. This shit is weird for me. I don't have any experience with this stuff except with her, so I don't know what to do. I can't cum with her, I don't know if that's her fault or nerves or I'm just too good at masturbating or what. That's not even the biggest problem. She's cool to talk with. We have similar interests. I love having someone to cuddle and be intimate with. But fuck. In public she's too much, in private she's very sensitive, and she definitely kind of obsesses about me. Any thoughts? I'm so lost
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Oh and on top of this I'm also waiting to pass a kidney stone at 20 years old. That's fucking me up pretty good too.
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Stop masturbating
Your dick goes soft cuz u only know your hand.
Once you get hard enough, stick it in her.
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>>18007939
I did! For like a few weeks. I started up again because I just wanted to fucking cum.
Also she does not want it in her.
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>>18007945
The problem is that you're both fucking virgins.
She doesn't know what to do so she's just jerking on your cock like she's seen in porn or imagined she's supposed to. You're just sitting there and sperging out because you're confused about why you can't just lay back and cum buckets because OMG GURL TOUCHING MAH DICK.
Truth of the matter is that you need to figure out what feels good for yourself and then guide her. Her hand is not synced to your brain.
Have her try different stuff - caress the balls a bit, tease the shaft, lightly rub your dick's frenulum with her thumb, use some lube and have her lightly pump the penis with her hand while her thumb and pointer finger form a ring that rubs against against the ridge of your dick head with even pressure at an even pace... I don't fucking know man, stop being a useless sack of virgin shit and try to think of how to improve the experience instead of whining like a little bitch. I've never heard someone whine so hard about a girl trying to please them. Look up some techniques online or something, goddamn.
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