need some perspective

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Did you know her from before or only met her during her break?
Did you assume she was single until yesterday?

>>18006528
Knew her before, started talking and found out about the break.

I knew she was in a relationship

>>18006555
Let me be a bit more clear.

I spoke with her and asked to hang out / her number and she told me she had a bf. We began to hang out, and later did she tell me she was on a break after I kept asking to get food afterwards.

She spilled the beans and said she was only interested in a friend. I complied, but I've grown more attached and would like to see her happy and become who she wants to be.

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>My main concern is regretting not telling her.
I would tell her. Not in hopes to get together with her, but just to liberate myself from the annoying worries.

I'm no expert in love and don't know if I'm even a remotely similar person to you but for me the best way to get over a woman is the knowledge that she knows how I feel. On the other hand, up till now I've always succeeded in not letting strong feelings arise towards a woman who already is in a relationship, because I don't want to ruin other's happiness.
Sorry, guess I'm not being much of a help here.

>>18006615
No worries, thank you for the reply. I'm kinda leaning towards that. Tbh I've had a crush on her since u saw her, and spoke to her literally the last possible day and got her number.

Kinda wanna just get it out there and stop dancing around this. I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I'd like to take it further if possible. I just hope things don't get weird. I think they may after speaking with her about this subject, it's almost hard to belive she doesn't know Already. Anyway, she said she had crushes and once when a crush asked her out she ran away and ignored it. I hope that doesn't happen to me, but we've become close and share a lot about each other. I don't think friends just chat in the car for hours.

My main idea about telling her is that she would have that in mind when she meets with her boyfriend to discuss their future. So she knows I'm an option. Make sense at all? Maybe I shouldn't give her that power, maybe I should wait for the outcome, but I can't tell her if she decides to get back together with him. I think it's now or never.

>>18006636
Bump for this please

>>18006699
I'm gonna do it, 2 dubs 1 trips.

You're an idiot on so many levels.

>>18006855
If you're not going to elaborate I'm going to have to ask you kindly to go fuck yourself.

always have multiple options and backups

no sense pining over one girl , who may or may not be into you.

literally dont put all eggs in one basket.

>>18006863
Let me tell you, he doesn't need to elaborate. You are a moron.

>>18007094
Easier said than done, but I am working on that. My choices where I live are about 3 toothless fat women.

Thank you though.

>>18007097
It would be helpful if you did so I know you're not some edgy teen that thinks he knows everything about life already. I'm not very experienced in this.