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So /adv/, I struggled all my thirty years aganist social anxiety

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So /adv/, I struggled all my thirty years aganist social anxiety and chronical shyness. I slowly managed to become sociable, and recently women started noticing me
The huge problem is, I can't manage to get intimate. meaning I live situations like
>know girl
>I like her
>She invites me somewhere
>accept and then disert her telling myself ridicolous excuses
I started going to a shrink last week, but i don't expect much.
What the fuck is my problem? why i reduce myself getting back fapping to Internet when there are women that want to have sex with me out there?
is it just pressure of my sexual in experience?
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>>18004215
Where are you meeting them?
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>accept and then disert her telling myself ridicolous excuses

stop that. Follow through on your commitments.
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>>18004218
Here

>>18004222
Didn't see that. I thought they were deserting you.

Cut that shit out OP. Be a fucking man and go out with her. She clearly likes you if she wants to go out on a date The harder part is over
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>>18004222
That's what I'd like to do, but I get shit scared and puss out silently
>>18004237
I'm afraid of every thing that can go wrong.
What if I don't get a boner out of anxiety? what if she doesn't like my dick? what if my sexual performance is terrible? what if I blush? what if I do something wrong?
I can't bear this pressure
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>>18004305
>What if I don't get a boner out of anxiety? what if she doesn't like my dick? what if my sexual performance is terrible? what if I blush? what if I do something wrong?

A first date usually doesn't lead to sex unless you know what you're doing and you don't so you don't have worry about that
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>>18004317
Well maybe I'm being paranoid, but its integral to the problem
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Sit down and meditate.
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>>18004215
Isn't it dopamine that gets released for completing a reward?
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