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How do I become popular?

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Today I considered that I'm 26 and I've done 6 months of paid work in my life so far so I'm not ever going to succeed in that regard. I've been upset about it but now I've been thinking that the other option for aquiring validation and worthiness would be to become popular. I've only talked to my boyfriend in the last four years so make the instructions quite simple. How do I become popular?
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>>18001908
sell drugs to highschool kids
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>>18001908
Disregarding the "popular" for a moment, let's focus on "acquiring validation and worthiness" first. Having a successful career and having loads of friends aren't the only options of getting a sense of fulfillment and self-worth.
Try to find meaning in the small stuff you do.

In a more practical sense: Go do some volunteer work.
That'll give you a sense of worthiness and also surround you with people to validate that worthiness.
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Stop being a loser for one. No one likes an unemployed bum. For you I'd say your only shot is doing something so terrible you end up the headline of CNN for a month because your case is that fucking bad.
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Talk to people.
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Be serious guys this is important.

I have serious trust issues and social anxiety. I'm halfway mute. How do I become charismatic and confident?
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>>18002821
We can't cure your trust issues, social anxiety and inexperience with social interaction with a couple of well-written posts. Work towards accepting your shortcomings and try to work with them, instead of against them.

Also, confidence isn't a goal that can be reached by endlessly piling effort into trying to get there. Confidence is a by-product of when you're able to be content with what you do.
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>>18001908
Volunteer at something that helps poor people. That will really open your eyes and look higher. I talk by experience.
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