5 MONTHS PREG. He cums to trannys and won't leave his ex alone.

How do you know he still does?

>>17999627
I know they don't talk and hang as much. But it's the fact that he won't let her go. If she's irrelevant and his child and I are now the focus why can't he just block her from everything? If he has enough balls to tell my mom that he's basically not going to cut her out for us, then there must be something there. It's only common sense. I would cut out all of my exes if that allowed me to raise my child in a good happy home with the baby's mom you know what I mean?

>>17999649
Your home will never be happy. You picked what sounds to be the wrong guy. You will need to leave him. You will be a single mother and you will have to raise this child alone if you don't want it to grow up really messed up.

You need to live with the consequences of your actions. The first step to that is accepting you made a mistake with this guy and moving on.

>>17999668
Agreed.

I'm not on board with cutting all contacts with exes but he is sending flirty texts and pics so that's a no-no.

>in the baby's life for the sake of the baby
leave before you hate him and keep in touch

Say you'll break up with him if he doesn't stop talking to his ex. Lol why the fuck is everyone jerking off to trannies atm?

>>17999605
More pics of his ex?

Wow...he's gay and you gave him the chance to put a kid in the world before he comes out completely.

Does his name start with a J?

>>17999742
>why the fuck is everyone jerking off to trannies atm

you tell me...

https://webmshare.com/jQ5v1

https://webmshare.com/0rnox

I mean I'm straight as an arrow but I really like this one.
t.b.h OP is probably not nearly as pretty as the tranny he's fapping to

tl;dr

learn to greentext and be more terse

>>17999605
>he loves me
Bahahahahahaha, gud 1.

>>17999605
Set up an appointment with a staircase to abort. Nothing good can come from this.

try jerking off to tranny porn with him

If you are pregnant with his child, and he still is prioritizing an ex, he obviously does not care about you in the slightest. It's fine to explore sexuality and be open to things, but if he cannot be what you need or want, don't waste your time. The fact that you feel the need to post something like this shows that you have a gut feeling that something is not right about your connection to him. Be strong, be brave and let that go. He sounds like a confused, lonely person. Be the strong, confident, loyal one for the child's sake

He wants to have his cake and eat it too...nah

If you can imagine yourself in the future and still see this happening to you and your baby -since it'll be born by that time- then move on. If you're the only one trying to salvage it and putting in the effort then it'll never work because the other person is also supposed to put forth some energy into compromising. He can try to be a father without you two being in a relationship but that's if he's willing to be a better person and put aside his personal drama. His ex should stay in the past and if he can't leave her alone then why does he want to be with you if he knows that makes you upset?

>I met him when they were in an open relationship

Kek

>>17999605
Get an abortion.

If you keep this baby your life will be shit, the kids life will be shit, and my taxes will get wasted some more

UPDATE UPDATE
So I think I came to the conclusion he's fuckin gay. He decided to open the relationship, not her (she told me) because he wanted to explore his sexuality because he was prob realizing he liked dick.
Being curious to me is searching gay porn or whatever and then being like ok not into it. But liking something where a guy is cumming on some other guys face and licking up his cum / watching tranny porn is fucking gay.
I've seen all the read flags before and I think it's ok he's gay. He's just probably going through the stages of coming out and accepting it. If he has any part in my child's life who is a boy. He's going to be so confused.

>>18000807
He's into women, no 100% gay guy knocks up a girl or faps to women just because they have dicks.

Regardless, you need to gauge other aspects of him as a father after getting him away from his ex, he could be a good dad as you haven't told us everything about him.

>>18000508
>5 months
>abortion
anon pls
i believe in the right to choose, but the thing has discernible brainwaves at this point

>>18000963
So do you, and based on your contribution to society, she should abort it with force.

>>18000970
i run a business, anon. i employ people. what do you contribute to society, besides lackluster shitposting that is surpassed even by canadians?
>>>/pol/

>>18000945
>faps to women just because they have dicks
lol

>>17999605
>5 months
>at or below 20 weeks

You're right at the limit for abortion.
You probably live in a libshit state so get that thing vacuumed out. He'll be an absent father and you don't sound ready to raise a kid on your own.

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>>18001004
To date the research I performed has saved the lives of 158,000 people who would have otherwise died from hospital infections. I don't believe in eugenics, but you make a very convincing case.

>>18000508
>the kids life will be shit
Not true. My mother brought me up by herself and I had the happiest childhood ever. Can't say the same about some of my friends who had to deal with a lot of relationship drama by their parents.

>>18000807
He's probably just bissexual. That's a thing, people. And no, it won't make your kid confused.

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>>18001080
>bisexual
Nice bait.

>>18001093
Yeah he is bisexual, nothing wrong with that

>>18001008
Gay guys are repulsed by duck

>>17999605

What cam site does he use senpai

>>18001124
>duck
DUCK??

>>18001186
kek

>>18000807
So he opened up his relationship with a woman and got with another woman?? Sounds really gay

>>17999605
>He tell she me he loves me
>I know shits gonna go the way I want for my baby as I choose
No, it ain't. Get an abortion.

>>18001074
Your mom likely wasn't a deadshit like OP, anon.

>>18001635
ABORT ABORT THIS IS A FULL ABORT DO YOU READ??? ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT

Gay men who are still in the closet or haven't yet realized it yet can have "beards" if they want to hide it or not accept it yet

>>17999747
That's a 13 year old

Sounds like you need to have an abortion

>>18001004
>shitposting that is surpassed even by canadians
Fucking lol

you got pregnant by a man you first met and hooked up with while he was in an open relationship ffs, what the hell did you think was gonna happen?

To all you dumb fucks telling OP to abort might want to update yourselves on the NEW ABORTION LAWS. STUPID FUCKS! Have the baby, there is always adoption so that the FUCK TARD'S TAXES DONT GET RAISED!

>>18002347
>t. 22 yo who looks 40

>>18002629
Adoption would mean just as much or arguably even more taxpayer money is used while they're waiting for someone to actually adopt them than an outright abortion.
Just abort so it doesn't have to suffer mentally many years down the road, either from lack of a caring father or from realizing they were adopted.

>>17999605
>this is what women want

Everyday /adv/ makes me happy I am ugly and unwanted.

>ABORT
She is 5 months, you idiots
>adoption
If op is going to get on this, get on this now. It's better to find a couple looking for a perfect infant, (of which there are many) than ditch the baby at birth, hurling into the shifty government system.
OP, if you're keeping the baby, pull up your panties, dump him, and secure your life, and your babies life for yourself. You don't trust him, bottom line. You can't bring a baby into the world with both of you depending on a guy you don't really trust. Cut him loose and resign yourself to being a single mom, or find a better home for your baby. Babies deserve to be born to a stable home. It's much worse for a baby to get used to a mom and dad, then have them fight and yes, then just be with mom who is sad and depressed and crying, than to just be born to one parent who is 100% committed to giving them a stable home.

>>18002755
that's actually not true
kids of single mothers turn out worse than kids who had both parents who fought

being a single mother is literally the worst thing you can do for your kid

>>18002769
That's only if you know that both parents are going to stick around. Chances are, if both parents are fighting in the beginning, when the baby is born, there is no way they're going to stick together for the next 18 years. If shit is as bad as OP says, we have to just assume she is gong to be a single other eventually ANYWAY. Better for her and the child that she accept it for the beginning, she get help from extended family, a good job, and keep a chaotic force out of their life.

This shit makes me want birth licenses to be a thing

>>18002782
You need a license to drive a car, people still drive like animals. It's pointless. Trying to regulate biology, you're gonna have a bad time.

Abortion and teen birth rates are at their lowest in forever, due to good access to birth control. That's all about to change.

>>18002779
encourage adoption then

single motherhood should never be encouraged

>>18002797
I encouraged both in my original post. But the cruel truth is that right or wrong, people side with their feelings. Even if their feelings are stupid and illogical, it's what they have to do. I can't encourage someone to abort their baby (even if I am legit pro abortion), or give it up for adoption, if they know they will regret it for the rest of their lives.
Certain choices, people are going to make no matter the advice they receive, but at the very least they should do what they're going to do as efficiently as possible.

>>18002806
>fucking up an entire life before it's even been born yet is preferable to someone having to deal with hurt fee fees from owning up to a poor decision and doing what's best for the kid
ok

>>18002822
You're going to have to try and communicate your opinion more clearly.

>>18002829
>>18002822
I mean, are you saying that putting a child through a traumatic separation is the same as
>hurt fee fees
I mean, does an adult say shit like that? If you know some shit isn't going to work, dragging it out is only detrimental to everyone.

>>18002829
>>18002833
I'm saying it's a little twisted to prioritize op getting to avoid feeling regretful she did the right thing after fucking up over the well-being of the new person she's currently creating and will soon be putting out into the world

>>18002843
>avoid feeling regretful she did the right thing over fucking up the well being of her child

Ok, I still can't make heads or tales of that statement. The child is coming, the die is cast, what are you trying to say?

>>18002852
encouraging single motherhood because
>I can't encourage someone to give it up for adoption, if they know they will regret it for the rest of their lives.
is kinda twisted

>>18002861
As few decisions as are ours to make, others should stay the fuck o it of it.
I encouraged adoption, as being pursued before birth as its a lot easier. But is someone already has ther mind made up, as most mothers do, there is no use in fighting it. Single mothers should know that their lives will be hell, but I doubt that will dissuade them. People will do what they want to do. The most important thing is that they do it smartly.

OPs baby daddy sounds like a 100% liability. If po can't give the baby up, she should get her shit together, and make her life stable enough for a baby. A single independent mother is 199x better than a single mother who keeps trying to depend on a disappearing and reappearing baby-daddy.

>>17999605
>open relationship

Hmmmmn I don't know man but this seems like the biggest possible red flag to me if you're pursuing a healthy relationship

There is nothing wrong with cumming to trannies you transphobic bigot.

>>18002631
No dipshit that's a 13 year old but I wouldn't expect you to know that seeing as how you have 0 social media presence and only think about anime images

>>18003367
didnt mean to upset you kek