10/10 girl is heavily into me but still contacts with ex

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Dude they essentially broke up 2 years ago. You're reading way too far into it. If you think you have a 10/10!!!??? Why in the fuck would you not at least try to pursue that? Dude you're in, just don't fuck up. I'd say you'll know the answer to your question soon enough. Play it easy, not slow. Know the distinction.

>>17993748
I couldn't disagree more.

She stayed two years in a relationship she wasn't emotionally invested in, which is a red flag in itself. Then within a month she's on "a few dates" with a new guy already (also OP if she's on Tinder there's a good chance you're not the only one she's been dating during that time) and ready to let this new guy meet her parents, which apparently is something very special. All the while she keeps talking to her very long-term ex.

This whole thing looks like an emotional mess to me. And OP you're falling for the " the one" meme.

>>17993739
You need to figure out where she stands and EXACTLY WHAT SHE IS LOOKING FOR FROM YOU.

Also
>I want to ask her to be my gf.

What the hell? Do people actually do that?

>>17993770
All in all, he's just as much in control. At any point if he thinks she's an emotional mess, he can leave whenever. All i'm trying to say, is, if you can at least stick it in with a girl you think is a 10/10, at least try to get that far.

OP has she let you in yet?

Ask her to be your girlfriend, past is past and now she is with you and obviously likes you a lot ! Good luck anon ! I wish I would meet someone who likes me back too !

>>17993785
No he can't if he gets heavily emotionally invested himself, which he seems to do considering how he talks about her.

Chances are she's going to do the same thing to him as she did to her ex. Stay in a relationship for years that she's not emotionally into, all the while he thinks she's the one for life.

you are a rebound
a clueless one at that
what shes doing is compensation, so she doesnt feel guilty about the thing

you should pursue her, but know 2 things

you arent going to ween her off from the ex with force, with intention, the more you talk about, the more you are bothered with it, the more he will be in the relationship
theres a possibility she will bounce back no matter what you do

best course of action
fuck her really hard and hopefully better than her ex did
make her forget him by making her laugh and being fun
no stress

women are like children, they will gravitate towards the easier solution
be that easy solution

>>17993739
>Hey I've got a good idea, let me ask /adv/, the worst blog post board on 4chin if a girl talking to another man is OK
Don't worry OP, you're going to be fine

She will never be 100% committed to you until she's over her ex. Be careful. Try not to get too emotionally invested.

>>17993776
Apparently it is a thing.

With my ex, whom I met on tinder, we had been dating for probably 2 months. We always spent every weekend together. I just figured it was assumed we were boyfriend girlfriend. Well I was out with the guys one night and took an uber to her place after and somehow mentioned that I told my uber driver I was going to my girlfriends house. She heard this and goes "oh I'm your girlfriend now?" Anyway we ended up dating for 2 years after that. But I guess you have to confirm it with people

>>17993739
>keeps in touch with her ex

She probably told him about you at this point, and he's probably going to kick your ass when he sees you

>>17993739
It's funny this sounds like my friend, do you live in RI? She still texts her ex, hangsout with him. At least in a group, they talk a little and she has pics of them still. It ended 3 years ago for them but they're still friends.