Rediscovering my manhood

Adding on, I am more worried about my sex game. It is just shit, all it is, is thrusting to me. I have no technique.

For example: >>>/gif/9951392 (THIS IS A NSFW LINK)

I don't know how that happened. How did he make her so excited and shit? How do I possibly learn that?

>>17993009
Hit deep with dick head. Literally every girl I've fucked likes this

>>17993014
My friend, who has a 30+ body count, told me to use my hips. Just like swirling?

I'm gonna be honest, I'm completely average in dick size. 6", but pretty girthy. Is technique learned just through practice? Or is there material on this I can find online?

>>17992992
>>17993014
Sameanon here.

#1 fix your own sense of self worth. I don't know you or what you look like, but if you're convinced you're shit, me and every chick you meet will think you're shit.

Improve your dress, go to gym and work out at least twice a week and most important, hygiene is >very< important. If you look and smell like shit, even guys will want you to fuck off.

Psychologically, stop being a little bitch. Whatever girl you attract at first will hope you're as masculine as you present yourself to be. If after a date and fucking, you start getting clingy and try to lock her into a relationship, you're doing it wrong.

Don't ever double text, don't play her games, shrug it off and try to have at least 2 prospects at a time to keep your mind off.

Pick the best at the end, good luck.
Also don't put your dick in obviously fucked up chicks because you're in a shitty state of mind.

>>17992992
I have been dealing with the same problem you describe. I get attached too fast but I have realized only now that it's just a reflection of something else. I always went into a relationship because I wanted one, not because it was meant to be.

I started using tinder as a way to gain more "experience" but the thing people call experience is just learning how to face rejection. That is your main goal now.

Start dating, not because you want a relationship but because you want to grow.

I hate making lists but I have wrote 3 rules in dating and they have helped me so far:

>1-No matter how unique she seems. You can find someone else like her. The truth is, you can be happy with any girl.

>2- If you only can show interest in her, then she has no reason to take you seriously. This is the biggest fuck up I had, I gave her too much importance in my life, she was a priority to me. No girl would want that responsability. (When they can't reciprocate your affections, they feel responsible for you, that sucks)

>3-Stop being outcome dependent. Learn to live with the uncertainty, that's where real masculinity resides.

Uncertainty is the field of men: Creativity, Strength and Courage, all characteristics of masculinity come from the resistance/acceptance to uncertainty.

Women seek certainty, thats why they are always testing you, and always have options available. Bonding, love and commitment all characteristics of the feminine imperative are designed to make you stay.

In other words, Women are the ones who should define the relationship, the only thing you need to do is to escalate and see how far she let you go. This is because Men and Women love in different ways

>>17993009
>>17993014
The motion one would usually describe for sex is IN-OUT. Because that's how you masturbate right? Well, To get her to orgasm you have to think DEEP-DEEPER, you ahve to put your meat inside of her as far as you can.

>>17993024
Sameanon once again.

Imagine grinding your dickhead at the end of her womb. She'll make sounds if she likes it.

You can also lay her on her front and stick it right up there and grind around too. I've yet to meet a chick who doesn't absofuckinlutely love it.

Watch Corey Wayne videos on youtube. Too lazy to type out his advice, but it's good.

Look up Corey Wayne Needy or something.

>>17993032
Fuck anon, that is solid. My friends have told me similar things, but I don't know why everything makes sense when written like that.

>>17993036
Yeah I think I will start using Tinder. But thank you for those tips, those will definitely come in handy lad.

>>17993038
>>17993040
Hm. How do I be rough, without being overbearing? I find myself freezing up in the middle of foreplay, and I feel like I lose her turn on-ness(?) if you get what I mean.

>>17993042
Will do.

>>17993058
Sameanon, tease her nipples and clit during foreplay. Shallow insert your fingers a little bit and play around to get her ready for big ben.

>>17993058
Sexual attraction in the most strict sense is about power. If a girl is not willing to submit to you then she is not really attracted to you. Trust me they want you to succeed as much as you want, but they have to FEEL it to believe it.

You can use any word you want to describe it: rough, savage, hard, etc. But what matters is that you mean it as if you knew what you are doing. If you want to be slow do it, but mean it. The worst thing you could do is be insecure when you don't have to. If you are already naked with her that means she wants you to succeed so you have no reason to be insecure.

If you need to, focus on the now, not on the consequences or what she might think later.

>>17993099
So don't be ashamed of what she might think? Do what I feel is correct? I feel it.

>>17993079
Is it bad I still wish to fuck the girl that "cheated" on me?

>>17993009
This is porn my dude. She's acting.

>>17992992

You're emotionally stunted, young, frustrated and inexperienced. All completely normal for someone your age.

Nothing you're going through has anything to do with being a man.

>I get attached and clingy
>She freaks out, naturally
>I turn into a creeper

No that's not how it works. Try again.
You became attached and clingy and you keep doing that until you find a girl that loves this and clings right back to you.

Don't let somebody elses perspective label that as creepy or socially inappropriate. Some people absolutely love that kind of stuff and they'll love the care and attention and desire to be with them.

>>17993240

no . you act aloof and emotionally unavailable until a girl tries to cling to you, then you begrudgingly allow it and she feels good because she feels like she held on to a guy that's a better than her.

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>>17993234
She told me, "You are not as manly as you try to be." That really hit home because i do struggle with my masculinity.

>>17993240
>>17993245
What to do...

I have come to the conclusion that the reason I get so attached quickly is because I have never had a serious relationship and yearn for one deeply. I won't stop opening my heart to love, but I will be cautious and stop trying to find it so hard.

It will come when it needs to.