How do I stop this degeneracy?
If you're talking about your cuticles, moisturize them every day. Lip balm works, also vaseline and such alternatives.
If you're talking about biting your nails, I don't have a lot of advice. The way I avoid it is that I wait until a certain point before I bite. I can't really stop myself so instead I limit it. You can also invest in a fidget to keep your hands busy.
Just decide to not do it. Worked for me.
Also, pic related helps.
>>17992903
Fix your internal issues and bad habits will go away
>>17992903
Every morning, rub a habenero pepper on your finger tips.
tl; dr Really like gf in many ways, but her weight is starting to really bother me. What do?
I grew to like the girl I shared an office with last year since March, and decided to ask her out in November, despite her being about 40-50 lbs overweight. She no longer works for the same company.
Now, her weight has started to bother me. She's really pretty, and we get along great, have important things in common, similar senses of humor, and I really enjoy spending time with her, whether it's around town, on vacation, or just hanging out a one of our places doing not much.
But over the last week I've begun to be turned off by her size. When we've had sex, it's felt like a chore, like doing something I'm obligated to do, and I think I'm starting to realize I'm not very sexually attracted to her, and that's 100% because of her weight--she's shown be naked pics of her from 5 years ago when she was at a normal weight, and she looked fantastic.
I'm already thinking about breaking up with her, and it feels terrible, and would hurt her very badly too if I did that. I don't think it's going to work out much longer if we aren't sexually compatible, despite liking her so much in other ways (maybe even "love"). I have a pretty good physique and watch what I eat, and she wouldn't be as into me as she is if I were 50 lbs overweight. (Seems ridiculous to me to sacrifice your looks to indulge in excess food, but I guess everyone has different priorities.)
What can I do here? What should I do? Even if she did decide being physically attractive were more important than eating too much food, which I don't want to ask her to do, it's not like she's going to become thin and super hot over the course of a day or week. Fuck. I'm thinking about being close friends with her maybe, spending time with her, but not as much time, and without making out and fucking, but I don't know how feasible that is.
>>17992911
This, but use CND Solar Oil every day. It will take awhile but trust me this stuff works miracles.
Stop being fat
Stop going to /pol/
There's a transparent nail polish that tastes really bad which is made just for that. Whenever you put a finger in your mouth you just go Oh shit and you gradually stop doing it.
>>17992903
Bust your teeth out with a hammer.