Having trouble fighting off sexual fantasies

>>17991979
Why can't you just entertain the fantasy without cheating on your gf? If it's the younger guy/older woman angle you're after why not do some role playing?

>>17991996

I'm very visual so I think having to see it would make role play somewhat in effective

I definitely don't want to cheat, we've got some small things we butt heads about but she'd never do something like that to me so I can't cross that line.

We are both the same age

>>17992002
Have her buy a pencil skirt and some librarian glasses and smack your ass with a dictionary.

>>17992008

That could work, she already wears glasses

And I know shes not opposed to wearing outfits if I ask her

Am I a bad person if I still fantasize about the real thing but never actually go for it?

>>17992017
No. It's a fetish thing, right? If you were jerkin it to a specific person that might be a problem (or maybe not, IDK what kind of rules you have with your gf) but I'd consider it a genre of interest. Im sure lots of people fantasize about chains and whips and candle wax and that's as far as it ever goes.

>>17992025

I guess I never thought of it like that

Yeah its never to a specific person, I sometimes fantasize about the first MILF I fucked but its not constant.

I guess i can present what I'm feeling to her but ask it in a way that seems like I'm going to her for help, not like I'm trying to fuck other women, because overall I know I'm not, she wouldn't feel right and that would probably cause trouble

I guess I just never thought of it as a fetish, guess it makes sense though

Its not so much other women, its the fact that they are older and I am younger, thats the turn on

>>17991979
Do not stay private on the matter, that would be totally cheating.
Maybe the problem is you're not getting satisfied fully with your actual girlfriend, I would suggest try out everything you can even crazy shit and see how it goes, maybe you find a new fetish you can do with her.
I can't give you a better advice since I am in a very 'devoted' relationship. I would felt cheated if my gf watches porn and stopped myself watching it because I feel chesting that way too. I think having a threesome with another woman would affect negatively the bond in the relstionship, but again, this is my only oppinion and I tell you this to understand my relationship is very different from yours. Anywsys my only advice is that, try new stufd with your actual gf (roleplay,bdsm,etc)