So My mother and I moved into a new home. My neighbors are an

>>17990156

My grandma does this kind of thing with no understanding that some people think it's a little uncomfortable. It's a little bit of a generational thing. For example, she finds the "young Mexican boy" up the road to be "nice but too private," despite the fact he'll come by and help them fix something, bring them some leftovers, whatever.

In their era (and my parents, who are 50+), you used to know everything about your neighbors. My dad, when he was 35 or so, walked around to all of his neighbors' houses in the first week that he moved in, and introduced him to someone. He still laughs that one of his now long-time friends said "uh, hi... yeah? and what do you want?" when he introduced himself.

On the other hand, I don't know the name of a single one of my neighbors.

Just be nice, and it'll work out!

>>17990184
I don't think it will. Sadly, I got a little upset about it and told my grandpa about it...who doesn't really care for white people.

So he traveled over (with his revolver for just in case but under his shirt) and walked around our backyard, where I cleaned up the area.

He said I did great but overdid it and he glanced over to our neighbors backyard and said "Look at their yard...bunch of white trash, don't ever let that upset you, that's just pure white trash"

I then made a nervous nod and laugh because he was a bit loud and I knew that they have their windows open.

So now I'm worried that they heard that and doubt we'll become good neighbors...

>>17990156
it helps to have good relations with neighbors, as long as they are good people
they will watch your back, watch your home when you are way, and take note of any suspicious people like thieves and burglars.

>>17990224
I was trying to do that, yet I think something triggered that wife and she started to become suspicious of us.

I don't think I want any relations with them after that, it was just crazy.

Plus before anyone asks, the previous renters was a single mom redneck, who was a HUGE whore and had bondfires with tons of people around 1-3 am.

>>17990235
OP here again
Looking back, I could understand from their shoes but we were always nice to them, I don't understand why the wife flipped like we would become the former renters.

Maybe it's me staying at home, while I'm doing my college work but that's a bit discriminating, it made me feel like she thought I was some criminal

Sigh, I kinda hope that one of them dies or they both move away because this is going to become so awkward

you sure use the word "yet" an awful lot. Maybe that makes them suspicious of you?

>>17990272
I rarely used "yet" though in our discussions though.

Look, our backyard was a mess, it was filled with dead leaves and I spent the entire Saturday evening with cleaning it up. Now the backyard looks great

How they treat that as being suspicious makes no sense. I'm trying to think back and maybe her and the husband got offended by me cleaning the leaves near their area, since she said that I didn't have to.

But that area is near our driveway and it was looking HORRIBLE, I couldn't ignore it.