Staying hard during sex

>>17988133
I get like that if I use a condom. Smoke a bit of weed tht works for me

>>17988171
I'll see if that helps, altough idk i cant just smoke weed everytime i want to have sex

Nofap for at least 6 months

How old are you? Have you tried the classic no fap no porn? Were you with people you liked and felt comfortable with?

>>17988171
>I get like that if I use a condom

Me too, but I recently realized for me and my girl that lubing up with coconut oil in particular works wonders on condom sex. Not sure why but I'm not whining.

>>17988179
im 18 and yeah i was.
yeah Im currently going lower on my fapping (currently ~4 times per week) and I try to only watch vanilla porn or use imagination or smth like that. Not sure if its helping

>>17988185
I think u watch too much porn. Just masturbate maybe once a week to vanilla porn only. Eventually you will acclimate to that type of porn, and you will probably stay harder.

You can also try some aphrodisiac if you believe in those things. The vast majority do not work, but sometimes the placebo affect helps. I use this drink because it increases blood flow, which helps me stay hard: https://www.amazon.com/Neuro-passion-fruit-14-5-Ounce-Packages/dp/B003IHO8MS

>>17988195
Hmm alright I'll try to cut it down more. Idk it just seems worse trying to stay focused while being horny

>>17988185

That's not good enough. Seriously stop fapping and avoid porn. Really do it. I guess if you don't have anyone to fuck at the moment it doesn't necessarily have a point, but if you see sex on the horizon I seriously recommend doing that.

Part of it is possibly also just being used to your own hand. If your relationships didn't last very long maybe you needed more time to get (your dick) comfortable with that person. Not masturbating can help reset this and since you'll be a horny fucker any stimulation is gonna be good.

>>17988199
>>17988195
alright senpai I'll try that, thanks

>>17988201
Good luck, anon. NoFap really is a miracle.

>>17988133
You might just be in your head too much
Try focussing on what's happening outside of your head instead of inside it
Being worried about losing your hard on wil make you lose it in the first place so try to relax and be confident about it

>>17988278
Its either this or you are really gay

I had the same issue years ago.

It used to drive me crazy. If I was fapping there was no problem but whenever I tried to have sex my dick went soft in less than a minute. I had a gf break up with me in high school because of it and earned the nickname 'cripple dick'

I can tell you for certain, the more you think about it, the more regularly it will happen. It's all in your head OP.

You need to stay in the zone and not even think about what your dick is doing.

>>17988133
Eat bananas, pick up some cardio exercises and stretching.

fuck whatever order the girl wants. all of my first offers were from girls that wanted to go down the list yanno. like make out then you feel their tits etc and it just took so long that by the time they were ready I wasn't hard anymore.

also blowjobs are mega overrated, especially when you're nervous about staying hard.