I suddenly have trouble cumming during sex. I never had this

>>17984024
Hi, I'm a girl but I used to have a boyfriend who had the same problem than you. He couldn't cum. He said it was since his previous girlfriend who didn't like him cuming (wtf btw) so he started trying not to cum, had been used to it and couldn't cum until this day. I don't know what to tell you to do.

>>17984024
Are you cut?

>>17984083
No

>>17984079

I never had this problem with her, it all started this Friday and lasted up until now. Not sure what's up

>>17984091
Is it painful ?
Sometimes when I'm having sex with my bf, suddenly I just don't want to do sex anymore, is it the same for you ?

>>17984096
It's not painful at all and feels good but I do not reach that point. At first it seems that I'll blow quickly so I hold back a bit and then I can't reach an orgasm. It ends by me getting tired, her losing interest or I start losing my erection.

All started on Friday, ridiculously annoying

>>17984024
Google "ejaculatory incompetence." It's a terrible label for what is in fact a not uncommon problem.

>>17984024
Have you tried asking your gf to clean her strapon before she puts it in?

>>17984131
And if you try not to hold back a bit ?

>>17984361
Will do that later today

>>17984353
Jokes

>>17984347
Also know as retarded ejaculation. Amazing.

Honestly my plan is - no longer holding off ejaculating, no more porn and masturbating for the week.

What I am thinking is the primary cause of this are the fucking condoms. I did not put much thought into it a bought a large pack of Durex Performax. Supposedly they have lube in it meant for delaying ejaculation. While it should last for only a shortwhile I assume, maybe that's what fucked me over?

I'll refrain from using them from now on, hopefully I'll recover. Althought last time I used them was on Friday and today for example I did not use any condom and couldn't cum.

>>17984512

If you need to get your mojo back, I suggest not using performance condoms and then blow your load asap... even if its after 5 pumps.

It will be an ego boost for her and will prove to yourself that you're not broken. Unless you are.

It won't be a very satisfying shag in the traditional sense but you can always spend time getting her off after.

Also this happened to me with a smoking hot girl a few months ago. Nearly bust after 10 seconds, held back and before I knew it nothing was happening.

>>17984573
Good advice. Especially since she is a sensitive girl so it doesn't take long for her to orgasm and I get back up on my feet in a few minutes as well.

My main concern is that can that numbing lube be this effective? That it would cause ejaculation issues even a few days after?

I doubt it. The local anaesthetic they used on me to remove my wisdom teeth was strong enough that I didn't feel them ripping my face apart and yet I had full feeling back after a few hours.

That said I've never used that stuff so maybe?

>>17984612
>That it would cause ejaculation issues even a few days after?

Don't think so. That's probably all just your own psychology being stupid. It seems pretty amazing how easy it is to overcome the Dick with a little nerves or uncertainty.

I think nofap noporn for awhile plus a reckless no condom no holds barred cum-in-pussy as soon as you like when you next have sex can flip the switch back.