Hey /adv/, my gf keeps talking to her ex bf. She claims its innocent talk, and I want to trust her but it makes me feel super uncomfortable. She even said she'd cut off all contact with him if I wanted her to, I just don't want her to think I'm extremely jealous or controlling. Any advice?.. Thanks.
Break up with her, she doesn't respect you.
Her "well i promise i'll cut him off IFFF YOU ASSKKKKKK" is a way to manipulate you into feeling guilty.
It doesn't matter what she's saying to him, I assume this is a recent ex and she knows it makes you uncomfortable - but she won't actually stop until you demand it, making you the Bad Guy.
>>17982557
There's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with your ex.
My gf's exes come over all the time and workout together. Usually when I'm at work so I don't have to meet and there's no awkwardness
>>17982557
Well, first advice, tell her it makes you uncomfortable.
Second advice, examine why it does. Do you fear she's going to leave you to go back to him? Because he was abusive and you don't want her to experience that again? Cos you think he's manipulating her somehow?
Third advice, be truthful to yourself. If you're jealous, you're jealous. Trying to hide it, hoping it'll go away is about the worst thing you can do. If you would feel better if she stopped all conversation with him, say so. It'll be better in the long run (though, if she ever brings it up, run).
>>17982574
Wew lad
>>17982574
0/10 bro
>>17982584
>Well, first advice, tell her it makes you uncomfortable.
What is this share you feelings bullshit? She doesn't respect OP, OP needs to break up with her, that's all there is to it