So I'm setting up a second date with a girl. On the first

You are already stressing out and caring too much. It's too late.

This is doomed. You will fail.

>>17981199
I don't really feel that way. Sure I stressed before the first date too but once we met it was all gone, I'm sure it'll be the same this time too. Hell I think I made a thread here asking for ideas that time too. Yeah I havent done muc dating so I don't know what people usuallyu do, I'm not afraid to admit that. Doesn't mean I care that much, I mean I was happy to hear she liked the date but I wasn't depressed when I wasn't sure.

>>17981192
I would guess the normal progression would be dinner and a [blank]. Is there anywhere you could take her that has live music? It's cold where I live so the usual outdoor first-couple-of-date activities this time of year are ice skating, sledding, or going to the winter carnival stuff we have going on around here. Inside stuff would be bowling, laser tag, a comedy show,there's an indoor amusement park around here, the aquarium, the zoo (progressively more expensive, mind you)

It sounds like she likes having fun with you, which is really good! And if you picked the first date's activity it can definitely be her turn to pick something. Sounds like things are going really well. Good luck

>>17981192
Ignore the trolls. You are doing great.

Clearly she enjoyed the spending-time-with-you part of the date. So don't choose a movie, because that's just two people sitting separately and not interacting.

Dinner would be a logical next step, giving opportunity for more chat and getting to know each other.

Lunch/dinner Find the nearest indoor butterfly exhibit. Those things are zen. She wants you so dont be afraid to end up alone with her. Have condoms with you from now on.