I'm not looking for advice, I just want something explained to me. Something that's always been difficult for me. And, in turn, difficult to talk about. But, uhmm, here goes.
/adv/...? What's it like to have friends?
If you're a girl: emotional support and endless, insipid gossiping.
If you're a guy: competitive assholes who will backstab you if you give them the chance, but you can do much worse.
Usually someone you can spend time with who shares some sort of "interest" Or speak to on an emotional level like you might your family.
>>17980759
its pretty nice. I had some friends over tonight for ultron, kinda becoming a weekly guys night routine with a movie or an outting.
one friend in particular stayed after and we talked about life. hes a kissless virgin and his self worth is tied to his hobby, and hes worried he'll never be truly great. the only way he can imagine himself getting a woman is just succeeding and basically scoring a groupie of sorts.
i was happy that i was able to hug him for an uncomfortably long time.
>>17980760
Seems like you have shitty friends.
>>17980759
Someone you can count on. And they can count on you too.
>>17980759
Friends come in all shapes and sizes. Some can be closer than family, others can be barely more than acquaintances.
With good friends, you can talk things out. But in my experience, there's never one friend you can discuss everything with. So you have to have a bunch of good friends you can lay your different shit onto.
>>17980760
it's the exact opposite
Friends are a waste of time