Hey guys,
so basically i've been with my current gf for over 4 months. Everything has been great so far. We always reply super fast to eachother, i'm talking like within a minute. Now she takes a lot longer. Also sounds stupid but she'll say she's going to bed when I go. Then I'll wake up in the middle of the night and reply to her and she'll still be up? She says she's been on youtube. She's also turned off find my friends for iphone. We both live in different cities but see eachother every week. She reassures me every day she loves me and wants to spend forever with me but i have this horrible gut feeling. Anyone got any advice or experienced anything similar?
>>17973286
It's been 4 months. You will never have consistently quick responses no matter how long you've been together. I say I'm going to bed and stay up well past 3 or 4 hours just browsing the web. Don't panic. If she isn't replying as much, maybe it has something to do with the context of the messing. Don't start every Convo with "how was your day?" You know how boring that shit is? Spice it up. Even a little change "you will never guess what I did today."
>>17973315
yeah i got you but the conversations are never like boring, we speak about everything. Just messaged her then calling her out why her find friends was off, she denied it and it suddenly came on?
anyone?
>>17973322
Only explanation is because she's trying to hide her whereabouts. I know this relationship is fresh still, and you probably are blinded with infatuation for her. But let's look at it realistically, and I'm not trying to plant a seed of doubt -- but the facts are there.
>tells you she's going to bed, lie
>turns off find my friends when going to bed, why?
>when called out on, denies and lies again
>miraculously its on now, wow!
It's time to stop being naive OP...
>>17973365
exactly my thinking, but i've been through her phone numerous times. Not in a weird way. Like she'll just use it infront of me, i know exacly who she's got on it. Which is literally 0 boys. The only texts she gets when i'm with her are from her mom, she travels like 2 1/2 hours every week to see me. Just everytime I have doubts, the fact she does so much just to see me out-weighs it