How to be more confident?

>>17970965

confident in what, you faggot. give context, you dont live in a sort of limbo, do you.

>>17970971
>>17970971
I want to be better in conversation and believe in myself more. And just overall be happier because without confidence...what do you have? Ya know?

>>17970995
>I want to be better in conversation
why

>believe in myself more
if you were someone else, would you believe in yourself?

>>17971012
>>17971012
I want to be better in conversation so that I'm able to maneuver my way in social situations better. I want to be a conversationalist. And honestly if I was someone else I would believe in myself :/

>I've been struggling with my confidence for years now and want to put an end to it. How do I become secure in myself?

There's no real end to it. That's just the way life is and the way your mind works. Best thing to do is (surprisingly) make efforts and not worry too much. There's no end point, there's no "secure in yourself" in a way that eliminates the work or ill-feeling.

I never think of myself as particularly confident, yet I'm able to life model, meet new people incredibly easily, or whatever. Basically, I have the confidence that a lot of people wish that they had, I often get a lot of praise for that confidence. It just feels normal to me, I still have problems with my confidence, I still leave social situations thinking about stupid things that I did or whatever.

Take it less seriously and give yourself credit, you're likely pretty good. With conversation, there's not a huge amount to learn and it depends on the other person(s) too. With conversation, you just need to be able to ask a few questions here and there.

Like you're probably fine, but as soon as you start thinking about it you get tense.