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>>17970191
For my situation it was her, once my gf learned to relax and learned to get into the rythmn of sex it happened. Also it still to this day takes major effort and atleast 20min of pounding, only in one position aiming upwards. So it's probably her mentality and may just be her body.

>>17970191
I could never get my girlfriend to cum either. It took along time until she confessed to me that she was raped nearly everyday by her biological grandfather from age 8 to 14.
Explained why she always laid there like a log staring at the ceiling waiting for sex to end.
Anyways, dropped her incest-ass and been happy and confident ever since.

>>17970222
sorry i left out my main point, that maybe she is a rape victim too. That shits trouble man, find out and get out.

>>17970228
Tfw in current situation but too emotionally involved.

>>17970191
As a female commenting, it could be performance anxiety on her end.
Once the anxiety is there, it's really really hard to climax, heck even get wet.

Maybe ask her what she normally thinks about when your having sex, or CONSTANTLY give updates and instructions.

Ask if this this would make her feel more comfortable because if you do it randomly and it isn't the problem she might think it's weird.

But the anxiety is the worst and can be things like
"Should I start making noises?"
"Did I brush my teeth?"
"I don't really like this way, should I say something?"

Talking during sex may be awkward, but it'll let you both know what's what and address it immediately, which is why it's super important you're both honest.

Also if you are above average girth and she's petite and you're both first timers it might actually be painful for her.

Also, penetration is a tricky way of making a woman cum anyway, as it doesn't stimulate the clitoris very well and the g-spot can be hard to find and maintain contact with.

>>17970237
dude i am serious get out of that shit. This bitch ruined me so bad, i was just as emotionally involved and guess what YUP she cheated on me bro she was hot as fuck but broken and thought being a slut could fix her. Let me tell you what your emotional involvement will do. Youll drop out of college like i did and enlist in the military picking a front lines job hoping to die. And guess what, you wont die, youll do two enlistments back to back but you wont get a single shot fired at you and youll waste over a decade of your life.

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>>17970271
>joins the military as a suicide method

the long con