My bf wanted a threesome for years & I finally said ok. I picked her out.I had 1 agenda in hand, to make a threesome happen. I'm not looking for a new friend, I'm looking to make his fantasy come true.
Finally I asked her, and she agrees. Now its been over a month since it went down and my bf wants another with her. Well, in the first go, even though I told her that I was bi & even though she's bi, she had nothing to do with me. She made it all about him.
So I reluctantly agree, and point out to my bf what I was upset about last time, and that he's the only one who had fun. "Please, I'll make it up to you!" he says. I ask her again, each time she politely says "not tonight".
She flirts with him too! Lots of eye contact, her staring at him during movies and randomly though out hanging out, always touching him. Recently they got into a tickle fight which turned into wrestling. She's always laying down facing her butt right at him.
I let them hang out alone. I'm trying to not be the over insecure gf. I picked her out specifically for one purpose. A threesome. I've told him this. I wasn't picking a new friend for him.
I trust him. In all out time together he's proven to be loyal, honest, & open. I just know he's a bit of an over emotional person & this chick is about to go on probation & have a drastic life style change. He is freaking out that he's loosing a friend. I feel as though I can no longer express my true feelings about her to him, or about their relationship to him. Because as soon as I say "I didn't pick her to be your new best friend," I'm met with me being some cold hearted bitch.
Now, since she can no longer drink/smoke, shes started doing exercises. Can you guess who's off a sudden going to start exercising? Yep! My bf! Am I letting them get too close? I feel like if I don't shut it down soon I'm going to pay a price and it will be all my fault because I saw it happening as it was happening, & did nothing to stop it, only accelerate it!
you dun goofed m8
hard
>>17969097
She is stealing him from you.
Talk to your boyfriend openly about it, if he doesn't agree to cut contact with her dump his sorry ass and move on with your life.
>>17969108
This. As a female OP, open your eyes! Put yourself in her shoes. Put your foot down and tell him it's my way or the highway and kick that bitch to the curb. Probation? Sounds like trash anyway.
Shut that shit down.
>>17969112
> Put your foot down and tell him it's my way or the highway
Yeah, make the new girl into forbidden fruit and you the over-controlling bitch. I'm sure that will save the relationship.
Face it, OP: you let another pussy into the relationship, and now he wants it on a regular basis. Expect him to confess his polyamory soon.
Men are only as faithful as their opportunities.
>>17969203
As are women, but I know you won't bring that up, now, will you?
>>17969097
If you think about it, if another woman can steal your man she is doing you a favor
You and your boyfriend are degenerates for doing threesomes
How long are you toghether and how old are you?
I'm a guy in an 8 year relationship and had 3 threesomes with my gf and another girls.
First, there are two main points for a guy to want that:
-fucking another girl with his gf consent and participation
-seeing his gf engage in lesbo sexy time
Apparently, you're neither bi-curious, nor ok with him fucking other girls with you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you probably just stood aside while the two of them fucked, right?
It's impossible to have an enjoyfull threesome without nurturing any feelings at all for the other person. We did it twice with girls we barely knew and both were awful.
Also, are you putting any effort in being as cool as the other girl is? Speaking for myself, I don't have a lot of female friends besides my gf, so I do enjoy talking to other girls. But if you're jealous and showing it somehow, he'll obviously prefer the other girl company over you in a bad mood.
>>17969255
It's not relevant to this thread, you hypersensitive little trigglypuff. Yes, some women cheat too, all people are equally awful. Happy?
>>17969097
You should have just hired an escort.
From what I can read, it's too late already. He cheated. Keeping in contact with her after the threesome was a bad idea.
>>17969097
you got cucked, girlfriend