I've been dating this girl for almost a year and she's fantastic, but she hardly ever cums when we have sex. I usually cum 10 minutes or so into having sex. There's only been a few times she's orgasamed and it's usually long after I've came and she's been fingering herself. I thought that after awhile of fucking that I would get better at pleasing her, but that hasn't been the case. She told me today after a nap that she was really frustrated with me about not lasting long and not making her cum. I've told her in the past that I would try harder to last longer and she brought up me saying that, and said that she's tried of me not trying. I got kind of emotional and told her I was really sorry before I left earlier than we had planned for that day. I could tell that when I was leaving that she felt bad for saying what she said and she tried to make me sit down and comfort me, but I really didn't want to stay around.
I'm not really sure if it's my fault or hers, or if it's both of our faults, but I do want to learn how to last longer without the help of drugs or anything like that. We've been talking about getting her a dildo of some kind close to my size, but she says she's afraid of only being able to cum to a dildo.
Any advice would be appreciated!
No.1 It's not your fault.
Utilize breaks often, fuck slow for a while, move to kiss her all over, and finger/rub her while going all out for a minute or two then dive back in and change your pace.
Find the positions that offer you the least sensitivity. Eat her out beforehand. Your whole body is a tool.
Also, condoms decrease sensitivity. As do numbing gels. Apparently putting Vicks vapor rub on your dickhead kills some sensitivity as wel.
Are you jumping right into penetration or are you doing foreplay? You have to take your time and basically "warm her up" so to speak.
>>17963569
We'll sometimes do foreplay, but even still I get too excited too easily when we start actually fucking. I'll finger/kiss/eat her out, but it seems like it hardly helps
>>17963647
Honestly you should be doing foreplay every time and making her cum before penetration even begins. Take your time and go slow. Why not go down on her until she cums?
>>17963700
I do enjoy going down on her, it's just my jaw usually gets tired or I'm in a really weird position that I find difficult to breath in
>>17963647
>>>17963569
>We'll sometimes do foreplay
What a terrible thing to read lel.
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Be sweet, caress her, kiss her all over her body. If you get tired of licking, finger her. When fucking if you want to last try to find a sort of tempo and stick to it, do breaks, change positions etc