How do normies even have sex on the regular? I tried several

>>17963255
Have you considered you are not charming enough?

>>17963262
This. Tinder doesn't exist for nothing, there are many girls looking to get laid and they don't necessarily only want 9/10 Chad dick. What they do want is a guy who

>has something going for him personality-wise (be witty, interesting, engaging, intelligent - not all of them, just anything at all)
>is non-threatening and doesn't look like a creep who will secretly record them or pull off the condom mid-way through or whatever
>makes them feel like sex with him is going to be a fun experience for both of them

The third is mostly achieved through flirting and if you're a good flirt, #1 is taken care of already as well.

>tfw normies are a meme
>tfw everybody is a neckbeard
>yes even your mom and porn actresses
>everything is 3d produced
>irl doesn't exist, it'a just a meme made by reptilians to convince us to stay in during the nuclear winter and make our race fade due to lack of reproduction

>>17963275
actually no tinder girls do not want to get laid, they want someone to take to starbucks over the summer.

>>17963279
Huh, no one I know who's on tinder is out for coffee. I'm sure it happens but it's absolutely not everyone. Don't expect a girl not wanting to fuck you to tell you that she might be up for fucking someone else.

use really good pics for tinder , and learn how to flirt with them and get a date. I can pretty much get a date or two every weekend and most will lead to fooling around or sex. I've been practicing this stuff for a long time though and my profile is also carefully engineered.
you want to give off the vibe that you're a lot of fun.
another thing is to go to clubs, bars, parties, etc and just try to have as much fun as possible, don't focus on getting a girl. they'll flock to you if you're having a good time

>>17963319
where do you get "good" pictures? Selfies are pretty pathetic for men and my friends aren't the type to snap pictures during our gatherings.

how does tinder hookup is like?
like does the girl just comes over at your place to bang (or "chill" top kek) ?
or do you go to a bar first, etc

>>17963330

Yea I snap when I'm out with friends and use those usually. pics with other girls smiling and laughing with you = $$$

>>17963334
bar first in my experience. pretty rare you're going to have a girl instantly dtf from your pics alone unless you're some 10/10 model

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>match with qt 22 yo tinder girl
>add her on snapchat
>snap with her for a bit at night
>turns into her and me masturbating and sending snaps
>send her a few messages the next day
>after a few days she doesn't answer
what the FUCK? is that common? she was interested in meeting me to fuck but apparently that's not gonna happen
any idea what happened? did it ever happen to anyone else?

>>17963255
Here are the rules to date an attractive girl. You must be one of these.

1. Be a chad
2. Have a good career
3. Be all of the above

If you're not any of those then you'll just get 2/10s or damaged goods.

>>17963349
That's VERY common. She probably has hundreds of men she likes to play with. You're just another fish in the ocean to her if you don't set yourself apart.

Success through online dating is the exception not the rule. It's a digital portrayal of our primal urge to spread our seed. Jokes aside, there is not a demand for dudes on tinder or okcupid. Disgusting land whales with fermented cheese in their vaginas will get dozens of messages a day while an average dude won't get dick. It's the nature of these things. I'm no prince charming but I do a lot better in person than through the Internet. I understand how easy it is to feel discouraged though but trust me when I say that you actually going up to someone in person will yield better results. Plus it'll filter kit the dumb shallow bitches who rule those apps.

>>17963255
I don't know why you faggots always complain about getting laid. It's really not as hard as you make it seem.

>>17963349

Took too long to act. Gotta come through quick-ick-ick.

"I only text her, man I never call
I'm still a canine at heart, I'm a dog
Yeah, that's why you gotta come through quick, quick
I'm posted at the Derek up on Westheimer, hit me when you're done your shift"

>>17963377
Sorry dude, but you don't know women very well.

>>17963255
Honestly all people I know only use tinder out of narcisism. They're not looking for people to fuck, they just want matches with good looking people so they can tell themselves they're hot and feel good about it. As someone else already said, dating after meeting online is the exception, not the rule.

>>17963255
Don't overthink it and you'll be fine. Get used to letting go, you'll meet a lot of fake women if my experience is anything to go by. You'll be fine I promise. Most women on dating sites are on there for a reason. Beware. Trust me, most women ive dated have had major relationship killing problems. And if a girl is on a dating website they're ego usually goes nuts. Think about how you might casually try to talk/flirt with a girl on a dating site. Then imagine that same woman getting 100 messages from strangers with the same intent as you. It's retarded in my opinion. Most women on dating sites get such an inflated ego because of the sheer number of choices. My ex compared it to picking out a puppy when they're all cute and want you. Needless to say a mindset like that is toxic and to be avoided at all costs. The only thing I suggest is to try to find someone with similar interests as you. Imagine acting how you do when you're alone and find someone you vibe with and can truly be yourself around. It was a weird thought for me but I am dedicated to finding someone I can completely be myself around. Some women will literally change you. What you might think could be a happy relationship with someone might end up feeling like a chore or get annoying really fast. We come up with this picture of a perfect relationship and that's hardly reflective of reality. In all honesty unless you're lucky on your first try you'll probably date a few girls before you find the right one. Keep an open mind and stay positive my friend ;) hope this helped a little

>>17963255
>How do normies even have sex on the regular?
Monogamous relationships.

>are hooks-up just a huge meme and don't happen IRL ?
Not quite, but it's pretty much as you said: you have to be a turbo-chad or going for a 2/10. Otherwise, it's the normie route for you.

>>17963412
>Keep an open mind
Basically, you mean date a 2/10 hamplanet if she has a nice personality and you get along with her. Sorry, but I'm not ready to abandon my high standards just yet. Not OP.

>>17963255
Dating sites won't work for sex if you can't already get regular sex without them. Tinder and places like that polarize the situation even further than it's in real life. If you get good amount of sex normally, tinder will be a waterfall of instant on demand pussy. If you can't then you won't find luck from there either.

Work on your game in real social situations first and lift before going there.

many girls just use tinder for attention.

girls tend to overrate themselves on attractiveness by many points and tend to seek mates based upon that attractiveness figure too.