My wife told me she hates sex. She only does it for me. I've asked her why....and its because she has too much on her mind/stress. We've talked about these things, but she never wants to work on them.
Sex wise, the great majority of the time...she doesn't want foreplay or me to ever touch her. She is not open to anything new. She tells me sex is just not that important to her. We probably have sex once every 4 days or so. She does get orgasms around ~30% time. It could be higher, but most of the time its usually focus on how quick I can go. 5-10mins
I am assuming I just need to force the issues, tell her its important to talk about it. I am open to all suggestions. Thanks in advance.
>>17961503
She's not attracted to you
Just don't have sex with her for months. Just fap to porn and cuddle her after. Get yourself sexually independent.
>>17961503
>>17961511
Or leave her lol. Are you 100% happy in the relationship? 80%? Give us a percentage.
In general, I am happy with her and our relationship. 80% could work.
Its more than just us with 2 kids.
>>17961524
not the guy above, but is your relationship affectionate otherwise?
cutesy talk, touchy/feely bahviour, PDAs, you know what I mean,... she could really not be into sex all that much, I heard that lusts sometimes decreases after kids for women.
yea. for the most part. I mean leave love notes, she is touchy feely, etc.
Its depressing...
>>17961503
>Marriage
>>17961503
I am so sorry. In all likelihood, you're probably just going to have to deal with the fact that you'll never have fulfilling sex ever again.