my husband and me are about to get legally separated because he's a selfish manchild who lets his mom influence all his (our) major life decisions. i don't want to but i'm not going to chase him, and a lot of it has to do with him feeling torn between me and her. kicker, he keeps talking about our future together, he kissed me for the first time yesterday in weeks, we have a 10 month old and take turns doting on her easily enough although i'm a sahm. he says he doesn't want to move but we're "incompatible," meaning, our sex life is dead. i tried initiating sex soon after i had the baby and he turned me down, has always except one time i woke him up and was so horny because my hormonal birth control i finished finally cleared my system and that was months ago. the next/last time he stopped and sat up, said nothing for about 5 minutes then asked me something about pokemon. seriously.
tonight we were arguing about something and sex and birth control came up. he said "i don't want you on birth control and i don't want to cum in you." i WTF'd real hard because 1 it's my body, 2 he doesn't want more kids and i do but i don't want to get pregnant again so soon after the last, maybe in a few years when ive found work, 3 i already told him unless he withdraws the separation motion (we havent gone to court yet) it's like the motion is a giant "DO NOT FUCK ME" sign over his head because he's trying to break up with me to basically be available to other women. i'm not competing for him with all this shit now he's heaped on me since we got married.
i'm wondering why the fuck would he not want me on BC if he doesn't want to cum in me and why tell me that anyway? i don't plan on doing anyone/dating if he really does move out because i will hopefully have full custody and all i want is my daughter. i love being a mom.
What's the point of that thread if you're going to be separated anyway?
Besides, it seems you made up your mind already.
Are you looking for validation?
P.S: It's not good for the mental balance of any kid to be with a single parent. It is also not good to let a crappy dad raise her. Find a new love for the sake of your kid.
>tfw want to seperate feom my wife but know the grass is not greener.
Not your husband though, my wifes attachments to her mother is my big issue.
your marriage is over
theres not much else to say about this
Has he had trouble getting it up before? I got porn induced ED one time and resulting performance anxiety. Made me not want to fuck till i quit porn. Relationship is awesome now.
>>17961321
Biggest mess of a thread ive ever seen. You seem like the single mother type, and with the ever growing demographic of single moms life will become more accommodating for them. Embrace it and raise that bastard, girl.