How do I learn to have natural charisma with random girls?
I'm an ENTJ introverted.
Sure, I can pull off a long conversation about white genocide, economics and politics, Hell I can talk about anime and videogames.
I can pull off serious conversations.
But how do I engage in a conversation with a cute girl that doesn't wanna engage in such conversations.
Sure, I can pull off some things with my knowledge about normie music and normie movies, but it all come as fake and dry BS.
How do I learn my true style about being a serious person but also I want to pull off that being comical and funny that some guys simply have.
How can I be the serious guy and yet at the same time be the soul of the party?
Take my advice with a grain of salt.
You need to learn through trial by fire. That's how I'm doing/did it. I'm not overly charismatic but the people around me tell me I am. I learned how to act the way I do by putting myself in awkward situations. Got into a few parties I wasn't invited to that way. Good times.
Just put yourself out there, somewhere. Where? Well nobody but you can help yourself with that.
watch this, some good motivation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZu7_z7SDEQ
You talk about what she is serious about. Whether that's college or family or the environment.
Also, the token serious conversations in couples are about bad experiences you've had, memorable stuff that happened to you, how you changed as a person and what you think of your life so far, how you want to live in the future etc.
Apart from that it's a matter of compatible interests. What you (both) think of your own region, generation, the people you know etc is an easy starting point.
>>17960425
Just gotta talk about the feels man. Let your emotions take control. Be spontaneous and expressive.
>>17960425
What's the point of talking with a cute girl if neither of you have anything in common?
What's an ENTJ introverted? Isn't the 'E' in 'ENTJ' for extroversion?
>>17960425
you literally said yourself that you can't fake it. so if you want to get normie girls, invest in normie interests. even if you hate it. learn it.
girls are a waste of time man get a pocket pussy or a waifu pillow
>>17960425
>Sure, I can pull off a long conversation about white genocide,
Girl here. Being a trump supporter is an absolute deal breaker. Go fuck yourself. I hope you die a virgin.