Guy i work with is older and really hot but completely ignores me.
I have tried direct flirting, indirect and even asking him out, i'm not fugly. I used to work for some modeling sites. So what can i do?
inb4 he gay..he's not
He's focused on building a career path and long term financial stability and thus your roastie powers have no hold of him.
Deal with it.
>>17960361
probably not happening in my line of work
>>17960357
>direct flirting, indirect and even asking him out
then you've tried everything. he doesnt like you. move on
Perhaps he isn't single
>>17960357
>I used to work for some modeling sites
First of all.
Red flag.
High maintenance, most likely bitchy, unrealistically high standards.
>Guy i work with is older
Also red flag.
Every girl I've ever met that prefers older men has the same attitude. Stuck up, doesn't have a sense of humour, literally looks down upon anyone who dares laugh in her presence, telling them to grow up.
Obsessed with appearing (but not actually being) "mature" and "grown up".
Another red flag is that you claim to be attractive, yet you only seem interested in this one guy who ignored you completely.
>Wants what you can't have - would lose interest if he shown interest.
>inb4 he gay..he's not
Now, I assume by this you mean he's either seeing someone or has saw women in the past.
If he's seeing someone.
>Wants what you can't have red flag again.
>Literally just another stacy.
If he's saw someone in the past, he could just be hung up on an ex or a oneitus or some shit.
But, here's my assessment based on my drunken reading way too much into your post;
I'm a 22 year old lonely robot virgin, and your post proves beggars can be choosers, because I sure as shit wouldn't date you.
My advice?
Chill the fuck out. So what if one guy don't want you? Move the fuck on, stop being so try hard, who gives a fuck about maturity.
Find a guy who actually wants you, this one clearly doesn't.
>>17960357
If you straight-up asked him out and he said "no," then just leave him alone. If the roles were reversed, this shit would border on sexual harassment at this point. Just let him do his damn job
>>17960473
he went out but only as a group and pretty much just talked to the waitress.
he also is single but previously dated our manager
>>17960357
how old are you and how old is him?
Maybe he just doesn't find you attractive. I used to work with a model who came onto me pretty strong, and I wasn't attracted to her at all. She just isn't my type.
Sometimes you are just not someone's type.
he's 30, i;m 24
>>17960357
No means no?
>>17960460
i agree with a lot of this, i think the fact that he is not falling for any of my stuff is what burns