How can I obtain social skills as a guy who is probably autistic? I have adhd and I think social anxiety but I believe i also have this. I simply do not know when to do thifs like make certain facial expressions or when to nod my head in a conversation. Usually i would not care about this stuff but ive been trying to pick different dtuff like this up in university. Its frustratig because i lack motivation to be social and could probably completely go without human interaction and feel perfectly fine Anyone who was in my position have any advice?
>>17959944
> i lack motivation to be social and could probably completely go without human interaction and feel perfectly fine
>Anyone who was in my position have any advice?
Find a reason to be social. It has to agree with something you deeply believe in.
>>17959967
to get a gf.
>>17959974
>completely go without human interaction and feel perfectly fine
>to get a gf.
That doesn't quite make sense to me. Why do you want a gf, if you're perfectly happy without interaction?
>>17960004
my family thinks im wierd. Also just for casual sex.
>>17960009
>aleviate negative judgement
>orgasms
Not good enough reasons to inspire real growth, sorry.
>>17960020
So i just have to stick with fucking hookers for rest of life? cmon man itdnot my fault i was born like this
>>17960025
> itdnot my fault i was born like this
No, it's not. But there's good news, it's not a life sentence either.
>So i just have to stick with fucking hookers for rest of life?
Of course not. But if all you want is to bust a nut, this is the most effective way to do it. A high functioning autist would likely agree with the logic.
I think you would be well served in lots of ways, by improving your social skills. I don't think the reasons you've given will fuel you well enough to create the outcomes you desire.