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Declare love before vs during date 2017-01-15 08:14:47 Post No. 17958223
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I'm trying to get a girlfriend so I have talking to this girl via Facebook. Should I declare my love to her before or after I go out with her?
(Below this is just optional reading.)
I've known her since high-school (we're in the 2nd year of college). My plan is to talk to her for 3 days and ask her out (or declare my love) on the 3rd day. I saw a study once that said girls prefer the 3rd day for these things, for some reason.
I just think it's weird to go on a date with a girl just to declare your love and be rejected. It makes more sense to me to ask first. Plus, if she really likes me, she will say yes either way.
Give me your feedback please.
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>>17958223
Date her first, and say that you love her when things is in their right place.
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why do you have to 'declare' it
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>>17958265
Ok, I might just try to kiss her or something, although that might be weirder.
However, I think you are right, thanks!
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>>17958223
Femanon here. Don't just tell her you love her out of the blue. I'm not pretending to speak for all women but if a dude did this that would be a huge red flag. "I love you" sluts are the first indicator that someone is clingy and unstable.
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>>17958320
How about, "do you want do date me" ?
In high-school she gave me signs that she liked me.
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>>17958320
or rather "do you want to be my girlfriend"?
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>>17958334
why don't you get a few dates in before you ask things like that, ya fucking dingus? Like, you should be dating for over a month AT LEAST before you ask to be exclusive/bf+gf
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>>17958223
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>>17958341
Thanks!
It's just that I've read a couple of things that said girls tend to lose interest if you take to long.
I guess I'm learning this the hard way :D
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>>17958320
Or a sign someone fell in love with you at first sight, you cunt.
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>>17959037
Anyone who believes in this has no idea what an actual adult relationship is like
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>>17958341
The way I see it, if a guy has been talking to you everyday for 3/4 days, I think they both know what's going on, let's be honest. But sure, I get that a girl would feel shocked
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>>17958334
just relax and have fun . don't take everything so seriously. you barely even know the girl, why are you planning out declarations of love . that is pretty much the definition of "creepy"
JUST HAVE FUN
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>>17958223
Lmfao OP who told you that you have to declare it? You've been watching too many movies.
The third date isn't common for an "I love you." the 3rd date is known as the sex date.
All you have to do is take her out, have fun, hook up, and never say I love you or even call her your girlfriend. After 1-3 months of good dates and orgasms she'll fall in love with you and SHE'LL bring up relationship talk.
Everything you know is wrong. Please don't declare love after the third fucking date, or ever. It's not your job to do that. Just take her out and have fun, and have sex. She'll bring up relationship stuff soon if you do everything right.
Jesus Christ some of you guys...
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