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Leaving for another country 2017-01-14 11:49:16 Post No. 17957046
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Shitty financial situation, offer to move out to another country to heal (put myself together) and start anew, the possibility is there for another member of my family. If they take it instead of me, my mind will rest and if it goes well, the situation would get better, if I took it, there is a risk I won't be able to work soon enough (health).
The offer is intended for me, but I really want the other member to take it instead (even though it might be problematic with the people it comes from.. a little)
Scared shitless of leaving into the unknown before I'm okay, but staying (for both of us) is no way to be, one of us should go. I'm afraid It'll be me. I want to want to go and I tell everyone I want to. But leaving for there means being in other people's home for a while (friends, but still), not feeling free (however I might be), risking not being able to work while the other person could do it right off.
All and all, a the biggest opportunity in the life, the kind that cannot be skipped if anyone wishes for good life and I really don't want to do it, not as the first one.
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>if I took it, there is a risk I won't be able to work soon enough (health)
No. That doesn't work. Sitting on your ass in another country will only be bad for you. You must only go when you already have your job arranged there.
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>>17957102
Not like that - I have a health issue, which I might resolve by a break (for a few weeks) there, which was the main reason to go at first (and then and only then work) - with a possibility it won't work and I'll have to return for another kind of treatment home (where I have doctors on it, leaving is an alternative, kinda psychosomatic approach, I guess) and until that issue gets resolved, I'm not able to work nearly at all
The other person would be able to work right off the bat if there is anything available in their range of possibilities, even though there would be a little language barrier (not so good english as mine)
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>>17957172
>if there is anything available in their range of possibilities
That's the problem. This offer is simply an offer from your friends to stay at their place for a while right? You need a job offer. There are companies that do specifically this (recruit people to work abroad). Try there first if you're thinking about working abroad.
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>>17957183
Thing is, for the financial needs and sustainability of the person there (+ support for back home), any minimum wage job at full time would do more than nicely - could be a cleaning lady job for all I care, a no experience job. There are always those.
But I won't be able to do it right off and we do need the income asap.
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correction: I wouldnt be able to do it for at least a month and a half and that is the best case (worst being me having to return to finish treatments here and try other things)
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